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I went out to the mall today. Just went there to get a shirt and leave but then I told myself I would approach a girl today. Here are the two situations:

1) In the mall as I was leaving I saw this amazing girl. Almost when you see "the one". I waited until she walked into a store, waited a minute and walked in...but she was leaving right then. She was with a friend. I said excuse me and said how it might be random, blah blah blah, and it was pretty rough on my part. I stuttered a little because I've never done such a random approach before. I asked her if she wanted to grab lunch sometime and she said "i don't know" and "nobody has ever done this before" and "I don't even know you". On the way home I thought of amazing ways to respond to what she said, but at the time I said random sh*t or was a little too nervous to think clearly so nothing great came out. But she asked where I lived at which I'll take as a good sign? She wasn't saying much and I think it's because she was either nervous because it was the first time or because she was with her friend. Or both. As I said I had to go after like a minute, I said my name and said it was nice to meet her as I gave her a note with my name/number. She walked away as she told me her name also. And she immediately started talking to her friend.

2) Same type of thing. This time it was at a bagel place. I ordered and then this other girl working there was the most beautiful girl I've ever seen. No joke. I was just standing there and she asked how my day was going. I told her and I mentioned my work and she then asked where I worked. But when I asked if she knew what that was, she said how the other person could ring me up. So I walked away, got to my car and said f*** it, I'm going back. I again wrote my number/name on a note and gave it to her. But this time, I was short, clear, and to the point. No stuttering or anything. When I gave it to her, she looked down at it and smiled. I said I had to get going to hang out with some friends, said my name and I saw her name on her tag so I said "Alright ____, I hope to hear from ya soon."

So they were honestly the two most beautiful girls I've seen. It was crazy. Both were around my age too. (I'm 19, not 20something like my profile says). So what do you think? Will girl 1, 2, both, or neither call/text me? If you want any additional details, just ask! I'm a moderately decent looking guy. Not god like, but above average for sure. Good body, just a little skinny, but I'm relatively tall. That's just physical traits... if they get to know me, they'll see the real part of me that stands out...my personality :)

SO MANY PEOPLE talk about what they want in a guy or girl.

The reason I asked this question because people talk about what they want in a partner quite frequently on this site...

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...to the point of deluding their expectation into wanting some fictional person that doesn't exist and doesn't have any flaws, which is unrealistic because we are all human beings and we're imperfect.

Thinking about what flaws you WILL accept and tolerate in a guy or girl, physically and personality-wise, as well as the positives you want, will create a more REALISTIC outlook in dating / intimacy / relations.

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EVERYONE thinks about the positives they want in their partner.

So my question is...have you ever seriously pondered the negative traits in a guy or girl that you will be able to tolerate?

Please vote and reply as much as you like. Thanks for answering! 8-)

It's all around, that sociability to a guy is same important than looks to a girl, and that looks to a guy although are somehow important, they are not the main thing, but what really makes me wonder about this is one thing.

So let's make it clear once and for all.

I am tall, handsome and slim guy, I consider myself attractive, I'm not arrogant or lying - I do receive plenty of attention from girls, I get a lot of chances to flirt but still I have a lot of trouble landing dates! Let alone anything more. It's like when girls find out or get an idea that I'm not the most sociable guy they back off, I can sense they consider it as a really bad turn-off. And I see a lot of couples around when there is a pretty girl but a really bad looking guy.

I'm not shy or quiet, I'm actually quite talkative and confident, but right now I'm in such a phase in my life there are not many or at all friends within my reach, and I seem to think that's the reason of all my troubles.

(I know here was a similar question, but I'm not the same person who asked it, that question made me to think more about this issue, and maybe here I'll receive more clear answers)

When I was 13, I hoped that one day I would have a girlfriend with big t*ts.

When I was 16 I got a girlfriend with big t*ts, but there was no passion, so I decided I needed a passionate girl with a zest for life.

In college I dated a passionate girl, but she was too emotional. Everything was an emergency; she was a drama queen, cried all the time and threatened suicide. So I decided I needed a girl with stability.

When I was 25 I found a very stable girl but she was boring. She was totally predictable and never got excited about anything. Life became so dull that I decided that I needed a girl with some excitement.

When I was 28 I found an exciting girl, but I couldn't keep up with her. She rushed from one thing to another, never settling on anything. She did mad, impetuous things and made me miserable as often as happy. She was great fun initially and very energetic, but directionless. So I decided to find a girl with some real ambition.

When I turned 30, I found a smart ambitious girl with her feet planted firmly on the ground, so I married her. She was so ambitious that she divorced me and took everything I owned.

I am older and wiser now, and I am looking for a girl with big t*ts...