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There's this guy in my class who I think is hot. One day I wanted to text him, but I didn't have his number so I just dm him even though we have never talked in real life. Instead of just telling him that I like him, I got this fake excuse that he could be written in the school newspaper. It's not really fake bc I am on the newspaper and I could write a piece on him. He texted back in under a minute really happy and I felt bad. I requested to follow his account and he accepted, but didn't follow back. That really annoyed me so I unfollowed him real quick. To make it worse I found his snapchat and added him. Feeling dumb again, I took back my friend request only finding out after that he will still see it. So like three days later he added me back on snapchat and to this day he's one of the first viewers of my story. The only reason i added him was because I caught him staring at me through the window one day that made me believe that I had a shot w/ him. I think I have caught him looking at me in class. Once my friend and I came out of the dining hall and there's was a fire drill and he was outside, my eyes instantly found him staring at me, but then he looked away. His arms folded, does that mean anything? I might just be wasting my time because he said he "probably" wouldn't date girls of others races, but then tried to deny it later saying "I'm not saying I wouldn't one." I don't know what to do considering I am part of another race. Do you think he thinks I'm a stalker since I just added him snapchat w/o him giving me his username? What should I do?

Okay so there is this guy in my class who I thought was hot. He's a senior and I'm a junior. One day I wanted to text him, but I didn't have his number so I just dm him even though we have never talked in real life. Instead of just telling him that I like him, I got this fake excuse that he could be written in the school newspaper. It's not really fake bc I am on the newspaper and I could write a piece on him. He texted back in under a minute really happy and I felt bad. I requested to follow his account and he accepted, but didn't follow back. That really annoyed me so I unfollowed him real quick. To make it worse I found his snapchat and added him. Feeling dumb again, I took back my friend request only finding out after that he will still see it. So like three days later he added me back on snapchat and to this day he's one of the first viewers of my story. I feel so dumb. The only reason i added him (besides the fact that I thought he was cute) was because I caught him staring at me through the window one day that made me believe that I had a shot w/ him. I think I have caught him looking at me in class. Once am friend and I came out of the dining hall and there's was a fire drill and he was outside, my eyes instantly to find him and when they did I found him looking then nonchalant look away arms folded. I don't know what to do. I might just be wasting my time because he said he "probably" wouldn't date girls of others races, but then tried to deny it later saying "I'm not saying I wouldn't one." I don't know what to do considering I am part of another race. Do you think he thinks I'm a stalker since I just added him snapchat w/o him giving me his username? What should I do?

I don't think so and honestly, I don't ask for too much other than:
- Commitment
- Honesty and no cheating
- No violence obviously
- Time and dedication (for instance if either of us have time during our break, we can briefly say hi to each other).

However, my mother still has this belief that a man has to buy me costly stuff and take me to somewhat elegant places to show he cares about me. My parents' marriage is miserable anyways and it's all fake smiley pictures on fb (there is no love). The idea of me being measured in price value to be won irritates me. Sometimes I even feel insulted. I learned about love on my own. Most of her conversations about a loving man is almost always about what much did something cost, how often is he taking me out and the guy wasting his money as a way of him proving his love towards me.

Ironically, I have a younger 14 year-old brother and she would want a girl that works and pays for her own stuff. She doesn't want a materialist girl that demands too much for him.