Search Results: when to call after first date

Why do guys go on dates when they already have a gf?

I met this guy on a dating app and he was really to the point. He wanted to meet. I did a quick search and found out he had a girl but thought maybe they had recently broken up. When he called me before meeting up he...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why did he hurt me?

I dated this guy for a couple of months. At first, everything was perfect and I was happy I had found someone who always calls and genuinely cares. Soon, he started to say that I should lose a few pounds, that I’m...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is it right to ask for money without giving explanation? Did I fail the "Sugar Daddy" test?

I'm 37 and met a young lady of 27 years old, we had at least what I thought was a very deep connection and sparks were flying early. We went on our first "date" on Valentine's day and spoke with each almost every day...

Shawnjohn832

Xper 3 Age: 44

Social Anxiety? Or something else?

I know a girl I go way back with, we used to be very close friends in highschool. We kinda had feelings for each other but we never dated properly. I started attending university in the country she moved to after...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

Will she come back? Did she use me?

So I began dating this girl 1.5 years ago. We had an amazing relationship together, were both in college and have similar majors. We never argued and blended together so well. This summer came along and she decided to go...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Me and my friend have gotten comfortable, maybe a bit too comfortable?

Me (33m) and my (30f) friend have been close for around 4 years. We have been flirty with each other but due to circumstances and timing, have never gotten to a more serious stage. Around 2 years ago I had to move to...

Anonymous

(36-45)

I didn’t tell the guy I was pregnant and now it’s bothering me?

I have always wanted kids, but I knew that this wasn’t how I wanted to become a mother. After an agonizing day, spent crying on my couch talking to my closest friend, I woke up the next morning feeling clarity, knowing...

Anonymous

(25-29)

NEVER GOT A boyfriend BEFORE?

So I'm 19y. o girl y'all may not believe this but I have never been in a relationship and didn't even known I was in one... it's not like I dont want but I'm so afraid and stupid in such things... one time when i was...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Different Situation - Why did he block me after sex and an agreement we made?

I met this guy on Bumble, lets call him J. I was direct and forward with my intentions when communicating. I told him I was just looking to hook up while he stated he was looking for a relationship. I am in a age gap...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

I will never cry in front of any girlfriend ever again⚠️

I never understood for what reasons we men were "indoctrinated" since we were little boys to never cry as it was seen as girly and weak and a sign of defeat. Quite literally we were either told and programmed to never cry...

Anonymous

(30-35)

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Break Up & Divorce

I'm Worried About My Ex Hurting Himself?

My ex and I broke up 2 months ago. We dated for 4 years and we were each other's first love and first serious relationship. I broke up with him because he had intentions of marrying me and having a family but I realized...

Anonymous

(25-29)

My boyfriend wants a threesome should I breakup with him because of it?

I used to have relations with this girl in high school. She was the first person to ever give me head and she took me on a few dates. She was really pretty but she had this weird idea about wanting to turn girls out and...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Break Up & Divorce

Should I really wait or just move forward?

Hey guys so I’m kind of stuck in a first time deal ever. This person I dated a long time ago we still happen to have a “CONNECTION “ I should say no it’s not sex at all I mean with still having feelings for one another....

Candy1810

Xper 5 Age: 34

My ex's behaviour?

Just curious but my ex dumped me mar 2019 after 5 months and unfortunately he lives on town where all my sponsor shippers are supporting my campaigns and he blocked all my socials early march 2019 so April 2019 I went on...

LB2001

Xper 3 Age: 26

Is his loyalty with me sister?

I have this friend and he tried to have sec with my sister but tried to date me. Weird I know. But my sister told me that she called him to ask about going to do something they both know I would be upset about and when I...

Lillyannex3

Xper 4 Age: 28

Relationships

I slept with my childhood friend that I hadn't seen in 8 years... what's going on?

So, I have known him for 10 years, 8 he was out of my life. In that time, he had a girlfriend who turned into a fiancee... who cheated on him. I honestly had no idea about any of this when all of this happened... He...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girl said yes to a date, then said no, now is giving mixed signals (I'm new to dating) How should I deal with this?

Hi! First post and this has been bothering me for a week or two now. So i've been working with this girl for about 9 months now and over the past 2-3 months I've spent a lot more time with her outside of work in...

GannyDhee

Xper 3 Age: 30