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I consider myself as not judgmental at all. I mean, I still have some weak moments but overall I try not to judge people because no matter how they look, how they act, what they've done, you don't know what is in their mind and what burden they are carrying. Also you never know what life would offer you and when you'are going to be in a similar situation. You just never know.
I am sharing all of this because I a lot of people around me are so judgmental. I have a few friends that are like me but the rest of them judge. I don't say they are bad people, not at all but sometimes it bothers me when they comment on someone's look or behavior. It feels just like a negative energy to me. And I almost always reply smth like: "So, why do you care?", "I think there's nothing wrong with that person", or even the opposite " I like that dress and I don't think it's ugly like you do." Although I have no energy anymore to response to commnets like this especially if my boyfriend or my mother says it.. or explain why it is not OK to be judgy. It is draining and I think it doesn't help at all. I am also wondering what is the benefit of it? To feel better? I don't think judging people makes you feel better.