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Me and my girlfriend of 4 years have recently moved in and need an argument settled between us. First off, I make more money and I always have. Not just a little more, I make almost 5x more than she does. Neither of us want to get married but we know we want to be together as if we are a married couple. I always assumed that once we moved in together she would want to stop working because I already pay for everything so she'd be a house girlfriend but we talked about it and that's not what she wants anymore, she made it clear that if we're both working the chores have to be split equally and she wants to retain her independence so that means keeping our finances separate. I don't have a problem with her working or anything but at the same time, chores aren't my thing so I hired a maid/cook to clean up after me and cook for me. Basically keep my office, man cave, living room clean, do my laundry and cook for me whenever I'm home since she's vegan and refuses to cook meat. It was ok at first but recently she's been in an off mood and when I asked her why, she said it wasn't fair that I'm rubbing my wealth in her face by hiring someone else to do everything for me when it takes her hours to do her chores and that if she has to do her own chores, I should be doing my own ones too. I got a little annoyed and responded saying that what I do with my money isn't her concern and now we aren't talking.