Search Results: closure

How do I stop beating myself up for still being in love with my ex for such a long time even though he left me for another girl?

I found out the reason that my ex ghosted me was because he left me for another girl. The last time we spoke, I sought closure but we ended up sleeping together and I comforted him while he cried about how terrible his...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guys, Am I a fool for loving him?

I met him back in May, I had just moved into my new foster home and my friend who lived there had invited a guy over who rode with his friend. I wasn't interested in guys, I had just gotten out of my first relationship a...

demurefaithe

Xper 4 Age: 24

Family & Friends

My mom is dying, what do I do?

I come from a rather barbaric family and several years ago we lost touch with my mother. She was the barbarian queen in a way. Many nights my siblings and I would cower in fear from her tyranny. We survived an average of...

floatingboats

Xper 4 Age: 30

Girl's Behavior

Does it make you look silly to ignore an ex in public?

I saw my ex in public and we were very close to one another. Close enough for me to walk up and say hi and close enough that he definitely looked right at me. But instead of saying hi or waving or smiling, I looked at him...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How do I find my self worth?

I'm just gonna give a long summary of my life the past year and a bit and see if anyone could help me. Essentially, fell in love with a guy I was good friends with last year, we never dated but he did have feelings for me...

Anonymous

(18-24)

How to move on from a relationship when I still wish I could be with my ex?

My ex and i haven't been in contact for a year now. The pain has subsided. I grew as a person. Yet wherever i go i feel her absence, and miss her. I always have the sense of nostalgia because i do all the same things yet...

casanova411

Xper 6 Age: 30

How do you look for someone when work keeps you busy?

Okay so I'm in the army, right after I got out of basic I found out not only did my girlfriend leave me but got engaged to a chick and is now getting married this month (September) it's almost been a year since we split....

gage_prather

Xper 3 Age: 29

Can’t Let Go of Toxic?

To keep this post short and simple, I’ll summarize. We were together for 5 years. He cheated on me and lied to me and talked terrible about me, including saying I forced him to let me live with him, to his friends and...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why he never loved me after a year. He wanted to work it out then go back and forth and leave me as soon as he didn't get his way?

I was with this guy for a year and he was nice then mean and go back and forth. He'd say I was worthless useless but then be with me in the end he said he liked me but never loved me I had a year to get closure which we...

angelicious81

Xper 3 Age: 45

I was with this guy for a year and he was nice then mean and go back and forth. He'd say I was worthless useless but then be with me in the end he said he liked me but never loved me I

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Why am I like this?

When it comes to asking people out, I’m nervous. But I’d rather have “closure” and know if they’d say yes or no than constantly think of what they would say if I never asked. If they say no then I can accept it and move...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How do you get over a break up and how do you get closure?

When do you fully know your over the break up?

La_lupe

Xper 3 Age: 22

Y does my ex feel awkward talking to me? I am ok with being friends?

We met through mutual friends. I broke up with him seven months ago cuz he called one night saying academics r his #1 priority and that he wanted to dance with girls. He started showing at every single frat party I went...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girl's Behavior

Am I right to encourage my friend to break up with her boyfriend who “needs her now more than ever“?

My friend is in the exact situations j wasn’t in 2 years ago. I was in love with a guy who i would have done anything for. He suddenly stopped talking to me one day randomly. Months passed before he finally asked to meet...

Anonymous

(25-29)

G@G Community

GaG Admins: Please STOP Making Unnecessary Changes to the Site

It takes a lot to get me riled up, but I have got to say these people have really done it now. I have never been on a forum that has been so frustrating with it’s frequent technical “updates” and changes to design,...

ManOnFire

Editor Age: 39

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My girlfriend keeps sneaking round behind my back. Need input because I don’t know what to do from here?

I am an ex marine diagnosed with PTSD. I’m pursuing a career in law enforcement. That being said I have made one thing very clear in my house. I don’t put up with weed and I don’t mess with ex’s (or people we used to...

broncbuster247

Xper 4 Age: 30

The guy im with says were together but treats me like a bootycall?

When i wanted to get closure and said we can be friends, he denied it and said that were together and it was up to him if he wanted to end things. Why would still do this if he doesn't value me and treats me like im some...

valentina_lee

Xper 5 Age: 35

Other

How should I go about this situation?

An old friend of mine who oddly stopped talking to me years ago over a misunderstanding is friends with my brother on Facebook. I thought it was odd that she is friends with him and acts like I don’t even exist. When I...

Anonymous

(36-45)

New boyfriend wants me to change FB relationship status but drags his feet doing the same?

So be I'm in a fairly new relationship. My boyfriend has been pursuing me since last November. I wasn't looking for a relationship. I was content. We started getting to know each other in early July. We hit it off very...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)