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Sorry this is so long! I will add a poll as well!

I have this problem where a lot of times my guy friends end up hitting on me and like wanna hook up. Its not anything where I am leading them on or that they are being jerks its normally that they are lonely and they think I'm attractive and good company so then they make a move but in reality they don't want a relationship they just don't realize it at the time and it has ruined two of my friendships so far.

Anyways I have been slowly becoming closer to one of my friends and right before summer we went out together and we dancing at this club where we ended up making out and then going back to my house and having some fun. We were both very drunk, it was actually very funny, but we decided the next morning that it shouldn't happen again. That was 3 weeks ago, we still talk all the time and hang out and it was fine. Then last night we went out together again and even though I wasn't really drunk he was and things started to get extremely flirty between us, we already have great dialogue together so playful flirting comes naturally. Anyways he was sleeping at my place with our other friends because they couldn't drive home, he wanted to sleep in my room with me but I told him that was a bad idea but we were still hanging in my room and then next thing I know we are making out. So I stopped it and told him he had to sleep downstairs. The next morning I came back from my test, I am taking summer classes, and was stressed out so he came up to my room to play with my hair so I could relax, we ended up falling asleep and then waking up an hour later and ended up making out again so again I stopped us and told him I had to go to work.

Anyways last night when he first kissed me I told him it was a bad idea because I didn't want to ruin our friendship and these things never work out and that the only time I would ever go further is if it was actually going to be a real relationship but we weren't there anyways.

Appearance:
Thin (see profile photo), medium sized boobs, green eyes, long straight blonde hair, fair skin, long legs. Typically to class I'd wear leggings or dark wash skinnies and a tshirt or simple top. When I go out at night/on a date, I'd wear something like I have in my profile picture.

About me:
I care a lot about my schoolwork and my future. It's a big part of my life but not so big that I feel it takes away from my social life. I'm applying to graduate school for bilingual speech-language pathology. I speak Spanish. I'm really involved in my sorority. I love working with kids and I am a camp counselor for the summer, and I've done a lot of tutoring with young kids as well. I love clothes. I like working out and try to eat healthy. I love going out to eat. I love netflix. I know very little about sports and really only pay attention to olympic gymnastics and my university's basketball team- I simply don't understand the rules of most of them lol. Every weekend I go out drinking with friends, to parties and/or bars. I'm a research assistant for a preschool psychology study. I love dancing when I'm out. I love TV shows but don't like movies. I listen to pop and hip hop music, hate country. I've slept with several people. I've been in love once and take love really seriously.

Personality:
Definitely quieter, but I like to talk when I am more comfortable with a person. Passionate, caring, emotional, witty, driven, supportive, fun, not a big risk taker, smart but a little ditsy, flirty, get along well with people, observant, concerned about others' feelings, independent and a little introverted but still like being around people, loyal, love to laugh, romantic, really organized, a little quirky. In relationships I love simple acts of kindness, like 'good morning' texts and ice cream dates. I've actually never been on an extravagant date before- I'd be down for one but going out to dinner or even just netflix and chill is fun to me.