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What do I do about my feelings?

There's a girl at work who I have mixed feelings about. When I first met her she was very enthusiastic, she even flirted with me once but I took it as her being nice. This was a year ago. Since then I only see her...
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What is true beauty

The definition of beauty A combination of qualities, such as shape, colour, or form, that pleases the aesthetic senses, especially the sight Yet Confucius said of beauty: Everything has beauty but not everyone sees it. So...
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Girls, Do you want "nice guys"? Because this is how you get "nice guys"./?

Aren't you tired of all the "nice guys", pretending to be friends with you or trying to buy you with money or telling you what a great person you are or how they instantly fell in love with you when they saw your face,...
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How to have Success with Women if you're Shy and Insecure

Background: I write this as a formerly shy and insecure guy who had no skill or confidence around girls. If any of this sounds familiar to you, I want to help change your mindset. I honestly believe that if you take on...
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I have a crush on my client?

I met him a couple of weeks ago and I meet a lot of new people as I have been a business owner for two years so far. Most times when I meet people, it's very standard and I get the job done but of course it's a...
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I don't have the confidence to talk to a girl my friend is trying to set me up with, what do I do?

If this helps with answering, I’m 19 and I haven’t had a girlfriend or even a female friend at all, so I’m really shy and nervous when it comes to this stuff. Alright, so a friend of mine is trying to set me up with his...
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Having regrets? How do you forgive yourself?

Currently studying nursing and I will finish in a couple of months. This is my second degree and I dont even know if it is going to be worth it... I am 26 and soon to be 27 and I feel like an ABSOLUT failure in life....
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When will my life get better... Any advice?

Currently studying nursing and I will finish in a couple of months. This is my second degree and I dont even know if it is going to be worth it... I am 26 and soon to be 27 and I feel like an ABSOLUT failure in life....
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He blocked me because I didn't respond and now I feel very guilty, were my actions the right thing to do?

I'm a 26 yr old female and I haven't had great luck in the relationship dept. I would put this down to a lack of confidence and boundaries when it comes to dating men. Fast forward a couple of years I've been working...
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How do women handle a shy guy with low self confidence?

I'm shy and I don't talk much. Due to being cheated on twice and stood up 27 times and the few dates I do go on ending badly I also have a no self confidence. Im upfront about it and some say its ok but they're also the...
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Did I make the right choice?

Growing up I was always awkward, still am. I notice everything, ask off the wall questions, did drama and football in school, lack confidence in my looks and so on. Anyways, I had always been on the outside of society. I...
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Growing up I was always awkward, still am. I notice everything, ask off the wall questions, did drama and football in school, lack confidence in my looks and so on. Anyways, I had Show More
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I need help. What am I supposed to do?

I'm not comfortable telling people about this since I hate seeing their emotional facial reaction for some reason. I'm 18 and just turned into a senior at my school. I had a pretty good childhood. I have parents who love...
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What should I do on a first date?

So I'm talking to this girl and we want to go on a date. She's pretty great and I have no self confidence. She's attractive and funny and we get along really well. We like heaps of the same things too. Now I've had about...
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Do you believe is being hypocritical when a so-called religious person do the total opposite of what they preach?

No wonder people had lost their confidence and faith in religions (any religion) and I don’t respect those people at all. They preach things that this is wrong, or this is right and want people to follow them and even try...
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Why would someone be so heartless?

Okay so there was this tutor where I study , anyway I was almost positive he liked me. Just before the holidays he came up to me sat with me started telling me how he is single and how he lives alone and brought his own...
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I feel trapped in my relationship. How can I break it off compassionately and in a way that makes sense to him?

My boyfriend and I have been dating for a little over three years. We are great friends, but it is becoming more clear to me that as a couple we are mismatched. I've told him this and he becomes confused, asking...
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Why do I attract arrogant guys?

I am a extremely shy, quiet girl. I notice that many men who I attract are conceited, arrogant, alpha, cocky, whatever. Some of them are so confident they can get me that tell “KNOW” that they can get me and will treat me...
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I lost weight and look my best now he’s being distant?

I lost a lot of weight. And I feel prettier than I ever have before. My confidence is high. I dress cuter. Now I’m getting a lot of attention. and the guy I love is starting to become distant. I thought by me looking my...
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Was someone ever jealous of you?

My mom is jealous of my easy life because she had an arranged marriage at the age of 17 and then she had me at the age of 21. She told me that she wasted her youth because she wanted to travel. It was her mom who got her...
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Why would people hate on someone, for no reason?

For example: You're new to a job, meet some co-workers (mostly girls) who are similar age to you, they invite you out for lunch, you make friendly conversation with them, everything seems to be going well. ......
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For example: You're new to a job, meet some co-workers (mostly girls) who are similar age to you, they invite you out for lunch, you make friendly conversation with them, Show More
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They feel inferior to the person, so they want to 'break them down' in order to feel better about themselves
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