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So there is this girl that really did bad thing to me but is now asking me for money. A few years ago, she was really bitchy because some guy that she liked for years had a crush on me. She said really bad things about me to my back and to my face. She started talking about how I was fake cuz I had designer bags, brand name clothes, worked out, wore makeup, didn’t like tanning (I’m korean. We don’t like tanning). She was always talking about how I did so many bad things to her and made her feel bad. She talked about making me fat and ugly (wtf). She like made up stories about me and like tried to bring me down so much and pretty much made my social life hell. I had to leave and find other friends cuz her bullying.

Anyways, fast forward now. She is broke, has a child and husband with no job. I am wealthy in a nice house with a good husband. Now she is asking me for money like 10k. I mean I could give it to her but I don’t want to given the history. I personally am offended that she would just ask for the money without even apologizing properly. Like she needs to apologize sincerely in person and show some remorse before she asks for my hard earned money. I absolutely do not like her and I think she should go on welfare instead.

I’m mostly pissed about the fact that she has no conscience and would just brazenly ask for money instead of apologizing first. She also just plays victims and had the nerve to try and guilt trip me about things I worked for. She shouldn’t ask for things that she doesn’t deserve. Like she can’t treat someone like crap and then expect them to help later on. So entitled!

To those that aren't from here, would you stay married to a cheater to continue being in the US?

My co-worker who is from Peru has been married for 3 years now. However, her American husband has already cheated twice in the past year. She's at lost of whether to still put up with it or leave him. She suspects he's cheating again.