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Sooo just to get to the point.. I met this Cuban guy who is 4 years younger than me... ( I'm Black) over a month and some weeks ago, and ever since we have text non-stop everyday.. We decided to get together just to hang out a feel each other vibe more, and I guess it worked out cause we still text each other all day everyday when we are not together.

For the past few weeks We have been together all day everyday (except for when I have to work or he does). I asked him why he is single (he told me stories about his Ex.. I guess she hurt him bad) He say's he just likes being single.. So to play it off I say I do too.. Don't have to answer to anyone and blah blah blah..

Well this past week, we have met each others families and him and my son take a huuuge liking to each other (like when they play video games or sports they're in the zone lol... I think its cute) He introduced me to most of his Family that lives here. He tells me that I am his Obligation (what does that even mean)

And even though he only been talking for 1.5 months when a crazy argument occurred with someone I knew (of no fault of my own) he soothed me and said he wasn't going anywhere.. We both talk about Friends of the opposite sex.. but last night he said "He doesn't see other women.. He doesn't pay them any mind" and thinks Im more beautiful without make-up and stuff. And we cuddle more than I am comfortable with as a "Friend" and lastly Im wary of acknowledging any feelings for him because he supposed to move back down South within the next month or 2...

Can someone help me decipher the mystery of the extremely gorgeous Cuban guy?

Okay so this is a pretty long story and I will make it short as possible so last year I liked this guy and we will call him A. HOWEVER I was getting over a bad crush that I found a creative way of telling him how I felt towards him only to be rejected and laughed at and half of the school knowing SO a couple of months I started liking A tbh we never really talked as much but whenever he would look at me I felt as if it was different and I felt that he got nervous around me but I brushed it off because I thought that he liked someone else and I didn't want to get attached and get hurt once again. Until one day at lunch I was sitting with my friends and him and his friends didn't sit so far and they were laughing and they yelled my name saying that A liked me ofc I thought that it was a joke because we never really had a real conversation we were more of aquantances and me being the shy Person I am I never had the courage to talk to him so I turned away sadly because his friends were laughing at me and I was trying to avoid the awkward moment. Then not to far long I go to the park with my mom and my little brother and as we are leaving my mom over heard him yell at his friends omg she's coming act normal and me being the oblivious human being I am didn't notice and I walk past him and notice that it was him once in my car and as my mom drove away she told me that A liked me because of his reaction and it opened my eyes and I would stare at him more often and try to grab his attention but I never saw him really look at me but sometimes with the corner of his eyes and there was only a few weeks left of school and I never did anything because I thought that if he genuinely liked me he would try to talk to me and his ex was his best friend so I thought that it didn't mean anything until the following next year I see him on the bus and he would try to get my attention but I never noticed until he made it clear and would look at me as his friend said just go talk to her and