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I am 28 years now, was born in a lower middle class family in India but as far as I can remember I always dreamed about becoming "RICH" didn't realize that it’s not so easy to be one :( that too in my country. Now today I have worked 10 years (5 year in local businesses which companies don't accept as work experience) got a 5 year college degree, working a low paying job in a company now. Reasons I wanted to be rich were not I wanted a Ferrari or a beach house or never wanted to work but I just wanted a good life for myself/wife/kids. That's why I never dated any girl or have any friends who are girls. I lost my savings while trying to start businesses 2 times in my life just coz I wanted to become rich. Now I am back to where I started from, no money in my bank. Even if I save 20 years I don't think I will be able to buy her a flat. When I see my boss who is a high school pass, unmannerly man but still is the CEO just coz he inherited this all. He got a loving, caring wife. I feel bad and sad for myself. I am above average looking and nice guy but chose to remain single just coz I wanted to give everything to my wife but sadly I failed, now the problem is for past 1 year I feel lonely and sad coz I know I have to live alone forever coz I will never be able to give same life to my wife that rich people can give to their wives, I don't want my wife to suffer just coz I was not rich. I don't want those fights about money and inability to buy her an apartment/flat and car and jewellery. But even if she is happy doesn't mean she's really happy with me coz I know deep down I won't be happy as I won't be able to give her what she deserves/wants moreover I also won't be happy as I never wanted to live this kinda life. I don't think I will ever succeed and become “RICH”. So what should I do now? I have decided I will remain single forever and stop dreaming like an idiot now because I am at the crossroads I can't go with this uncertainty anymore. So what you guys say now?

I'm Korean and i met a girl who is my ex and American (20 old).We had dated for almost 3 months. We really liked each other and dated every 3 days a week. I'm sure she liked me more than i liked her ( but we didn't have sex cause she never had sex so i didn't try to do sex with her until she's ready for it). but I'm kind of jealous person, and it made her got tired of me being jealous and we fought a lot. she doesn't like me anymore because i was so mean to her and hurt her so bad when we were fighting. when she said i want to break up with you and this relationship is hard and stressful. but i told her give me last chance when i was with her. and she gave the chance. but she wasn't like before she talked or acting and also she said that she can't promise anything. she said me " she can't do it anymore" even i tried to not be mean to her. so i accepted our breakup. After breakup 3 days, i started talking to her as a friend on Facebook but she said : In all honesty, right now I don't want to be in a relationship... I just want to calm down and stuff. But it can change in the future... so i accepted i was her friend cause i thought we could get back together and She always started talking to me everyday. Sometimes when we did Skype and she said : i really miss you and i still like you. And after a month (still talked each other), she asked can we see each other? so we met on May 15. we watched 2 movies and i stayed at her house for a little while. Before we met, she asked when we see each other, is it a date or just hangout? so i said : it depends on you, if you see me as a friend, it will just hangout. if you see me as a boyfriend, it will be a date. After we met on May 16, i asked it was a date or just hangout. she answered : what do you think it was? i think it was in the middle. i said : I had fun last night but it made me realize just how much I still like you. If you like me still, that's great. But if you only want to be friends from now on, I need to

When I was in middle/high school one my best friends didn't do very well in school and was just all around pretty crazy, he ended up actually going to alternative high school and I'm not sure if he even graduated. This friend was diagnosed with ADHD from a pretty early age and he was given some pretty strong medicine to fight it. Now clearly it didn't really help him in school, but the changes it actually made to him were VERY scary. He seemed like a different person entirely when his parents made him take his medicine, it was a bit weird to just be around him because he was SO calm and indifferent.

Another of my friends in middle/high school was also diagnosed with ADHD from a pretty young age, but the medicine he was given wasn't nearly as strong and I barely noticed a difference in him when he was under it. Although this friend made it through school, he was no valedictorian and it didn't really seem to help him at all either.

Just wanted to hear opinions on ADHD and what you think we should do to fight it. In my experience the medicine we give kids for it does crazy things to them and doesn't even help solve the problem.