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I heard when a guy is confident around her that means he's not that into the girl and possibly just sees her as a friend.
And that guys who are awkward and or nervous around her have a crush on the girl.

It's funny because for the longest I've been seeing it in reverse! If a guy acts funny around me and not like he is around his friends, I always felt like I weirded him out and didn't like me as a person since he treated me differently. Calm cool collected guys seemed so comfortable in their own skin so I thought they liked me since they trust me enough to see the real them.

For me personally I use to not act myself around guys I'm into. Nowadays I can almost 100% be myself but it's not easy.

I met a guy on a dating app... immediately he caught my attention which is kind of hard to do. After we got to talking a little I couldn't tell if he was being playful or jealous. Making comments about how all of the guys must want me how could he compete... from the beginning he seemed hot and cold. He waited for me to initiate convo each day, but it was usually because I hadn't responded previously. He told me he felt I was very independent and had my own schedule, but I told him in a relationship I was different. He explained how he hated the dating scene because every girl he met had slept with someone he knew. I kind of pushed to meet and he mentioned a date this week because he thought he was going to have a busy weekend. I asked about just hanging out Fri night and he agreed. It was like high school he seemed interested, but nervous. It took almost the whole night for him to be ok touching me as in his arm around me. At the end he kept stalling leaving, but when he finally did he gave me a hug bye. The next day I didn't hear from him and panicked and basically asked if he wanted to see me again. He said of course. I mentioned meeting up later in the night and he seemed opposed. I txted the next day apologizing for my drunk text. He never responded. Then yesterday he sent me a funny meme on insta and matched and sent me a winky face on another app... is he just trying to feel me out because he is seeing if I am seeing other people or what is going on?