I want to get my nipples pierced but I am nervous to go to a guy piercer as I feel my boobs are weird?

[Anonymous]

I have wanted it for a long time but have put it off due to the pain stories, and the long healing process (aka limited sex), and mostly because I am so nervous to go to a guy piercer but there are only guy piercers in my city (trust me, I've looked)

I know they are professional and have seen a million nipples and mine will not mean a thing but I have a weird hang up on it. I do have hookups/sexually active and guys have complimented my boobs for size, not really look lol.

I had a a few years where I gained weight which means my boobs got big to DD, and now I am 125 and they are 34 DDs still but the left is bigger and fuller than the other, noticeably so on top of bad posture. It makes me super insecure when bare chested but I am getting better. I want the piercings for myself, and will only tell the friend I drag with me though I am nervous about them seeing my boobs too.

Any similar hang ups, or words of encouragement. I know this probably sounds stupid and childish and I just need to take the plunge but insecurity is a b*tch

[Drooogie4]

I have mine done. They hurt like a bitch and do take forevvvver to heal and they catch on everything til you're used to watching out for them.

But, as far as being worried about the piercer seeing your boobs, dont be. Its not weird. And i was worried about that too. The guy never touched mine really, they mark them, and use a clamp to hold your nipples. The closest you get to being touched really is when they put the ends on the barbells.

But really , its nowhere near weird, i promise. But, they are ouch and hard to heal for sure.

[Asker]

So happy to read your response! I have a few questions if you have a minute. How long did it hurt after the piercing? How long was your whole healing process? Especially for having sex?
Did it affect your ability to move around/work out after and how did you make it work?

Also since my boobs are uneven, I am worried about how to have them pierced. My friend said when she got hers, she said she told the piercer she wants them to look good lying down which changed things a little. And did you have someone there to make sure they looked even when marked? I tend to panic and just say all is good and trust the piercer (bad, I know).
Also do you stand or lie down?

Sorry for all the questions haha I surprised myself there. I really have done days on days of research but still feel clueless and nervous lol

[Drooogie4]

The guy had me lay down in a chair. Some may have you sit.. i doubt you'll stand.
Um, mine are uneven too. But that didn't effect anything and I like them way more now being pierced. Im for sure more confident about how they look.
Yes, me and my fiance got them done together, so he got to see how they were marked, the guy triple checked and let me look in a mirror to confirm that i liked the placement.

And they didn't hurt much after about a week. But the first 2 days ish are rough. Especially if its cold and your nipples get hard hahah. But mine took about a year to heal really. They feel and look fine about a month in but they like to flare up and get angry randomly for a while. Even almost 3 years later that happens sometimes.
But it didn't effect me much. I could move around, workout, have sex no issues. I just wouldn't let anyone mess with them for about 6 weeks really, especially no mouths on them for a little bit. But thats about all it should effect.

[Drooogie4]

BUT MOST IMPORTANTLY, sleep with them covered. Catching them on blankets is the worst pain ever.

[Asker]

Did you have sex soon after or wait a bit? The guy I am seeing tends to like to be on top and will lay down on my chest and i have this horrid fear he will knock them, or his chest hair (Kinda curly) will like I don't know snag. Haha I've definitely spent way too much time thinking about this.

thank you for your detailed response. It helps to be able to ask questions versus reading testimonials (:

[Drooogie4]

I think we had sex the day after. The first day you're a little too ouch. But yeah, it won't hold you up for long.

Chest hair won't snag. But, be careful about him laying on them. That may not feel so good

[Asker]

Noted! And last three things, what type of metal did you use/size? And what cleaning solution did you use?

[Drooogie4]

Mine were pierced at a 14 gauge, and my jewelry is titanium. You want titanium or surgical steel. And smaller than a 14g can rip out easily. So dont go tiny if the piercer gives you the option (which they shouldn't). Aaaand, wash it once a day with a soap that isn't too perfumey and stuff, and then do a sea salt soak once or twice a day for a few weeks and whenever it flares, the salt water soothes it. So you'll need NON iodized salt. That part is important. And warm water. Mix them and soak your nipple or use swabs to dip in the solution to clean around the area

[Asker]

Thank you so much! I think I have decided to go through with it and you definitely helped!!

[Drooogie4]

No problem! Good luck , i think you'll love them: )

[ffsxx]

There's nothing wrong with asking for a specific piercer. Most parlors will take requests if they're professional. However, you have to remember how many boobs these guys have seen. They're there to do a job and boobs come in so many different shapes and sizes. They don't care.

[chutiwanx]

I was thinking about it and piercier guy not my problem but it can leave scare trust me think about it again

[SolomonEI]

If it's a popular tattoo and/or piercing parlor, the men there have seen way worse than weird boobs. Nothing to worry about there. Sex can stay relatively the same, just no nipple stimulation and be careful where your nipples are. Don't want to get caught on the sheets. The pain will go away after a week or so.

[Thinkthought]

I'm sure he's seen all kinds so I wouldn't worry about it. If you need to practice going topless more just to get used to the idea. Honestly pierced nipples are very attractive so I'm sure you'll enjoy it very much. You can do it! You won't regret it.

[Asker]

I do walk around naked when home alone, and don't wear a bra when going to the store and stuff in a baggier t-shirt. I think they look awesome as well! I should probably just take a shot or two then that will help be go for it... I have been on brink SO many times.

[Thinkthought]

Nice to meet a fellow nudist (even if it's just home nudism) ok. So when's the next chance you could get it done?

[Asker]

Technically any time haha. I've had the place chosen since May and its less than 3 miles up the road. I am worried about the whole healing thing with snagging and such as well as potential risk for infections as I am in university in a hot, humid location and am constantly walking, moving, lifting, etc. Plus I need to choose who will come with me (:

[Thinkthought]

Well do you have any girlfriends or family that would be willing to go with you? Honestly probably the best thing to do is just pick a date, very soon and just go. Don't let anything get in the way.

[Asker]

I'm sure there is someone but I am uncomfortable with them seeing me bare despite wanting a hand to squeeze lol. I'll get over it though or just go solo and not tell anyone!

I choose a date every couple weeks. But I think I have one now. Fingers crossed I finally follow through! Thank you for taking the time to respond! It has helped! (:

[Thinkthought]

You're welcome! Feel free to pm me if you want anymore help or advice.

[kingmstt]

If you don't want a man to do it it's OK to ask for a female piercer no body's books are absolutely perfect unless there fake you have nothing to be embarrassed by you can do this and man worth his weight in salt well love you just the way you are

[Asker]

Well there are no female piercers where I am haha. How lucky, right? Thank you for your kind words. I struggle to deal with insecurity with partners but do deal, a stranger just looking at them though is what makes me nervous. I get nervous and awkward when someone looks at me for more than a few seconds in everyday life haha

[Winter444]

Hmm. If any women wanna DM me their piercings... go for it... But in all honesty, I wouldn't worry. They all have professional piercers & probably would get fired if they touched too much.

[es20490446e]

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[pooper89]

He's probably never going to see you again

[Anonymous]

go by yourself to female one.

[Asker]

There are no female ones in my city haha trust me I checked

[Anonymous]

Just get it