Search Results: overcome fears

How to talk to a shy girl when you are shy yourself.

It's weird I'm not usually shy around women. I don't have any problem talking to women either. I just have problems talking to women I crush on. I've been trying to convince myself to talk to her in person for awhile now....

Anonymous

(36-45)

Fashion & Beauty

Why do I bring this frustration upon myself?

I'm frustrated. Very much so. I bring this frustration, anger upon myself. Why? Because I'm too much of a p*ssy to even talk to the girl I really like. I mean, what is so hard about going up to her saying, "Hey! How are...

DarkShadow1980

Xper 5 Age: 45

Donating Blood! Who does/who does not?

I just gave blood for the very first time today, and I am curious about how many people on here donate blood. Ill make a poll, but I am really more interested in why you do or do not donate. Or in any fears you had to...

Smilie-xo

Xper 6 Age: 32

I just gave blood for the very first time today, and I am curious about how many people on here donate blood. Ill make a poll, but I am really more interested in why you do or do not

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Relationships

Is it possible to overcome breach of trust in a long term relationship?

I am 41 he is 39. I met him 6 mos after I became separated from my husband of 10 years. at first he was just fun but clear that this wasn't "it" for him. we dated for 4 years. I found out at least 4-5 times he was having...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

How to get over a fear of rejection?

This has been haunting me for quite a while now. I've tried numerous methods to purge this quality from my being but all have failed. I've tried getting more drunk but I always have this fence that I can't jump over...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Conversational Anxiety! Help me?

(skip the examples if you don't want the question to be long) I have no problem attracting women thanks to material things (body/car/house/blah...).. But every time I attract a woman, within a week she is turned off by...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Married men or men: girl is emotionally shy?

i want to know how much I need to work on it. I'm terribly shy with my emotions... I express them in phases, but my fear of being a burden is very high... Is this going to keep me from getting married? would you be able...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girls would you date someone who has never had a girlfriend, ever been on a date and with a rough history?

Girls, would you date a guy who's never had a girlfriend, ever been on a date,or kissed a girl, as well as who's a virgin. The thing is I've dealt with a lot in my past, which has pretty much caused me to suffer...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How to keep fear of rejection from affecting the way you act around someone?

Through quite a bit of introspection and research about my own behavior, I have found three huge problems with how I approach and act around the guys that I am interested in. My three main problems are the following: I...

Stella5555

Xper 5 Age: 38

I can't talk to girls in person. How do you overcome the fear?

So today my friends tried to help me get girls with advice on what to say and pushing me to talk to girls. I was at the mall all day and I couldn't do it. Not once. I know girls rarely initiate so I want to overcome my...

snackeyg

Xper 4 Age: 36

Relationships

Need help, scared of relationships?

I'm 24 have been with a lot of women but I am too scared to ask them out , its scares me like mad and I really want a relationship only I have a lot of fear and hurt and it just seems so hard for me to ask someone out,...

Anonymous

(36-45)

"Meet people, talk to people you don't know, join clubs, get friends.."

Okay, so how do I do that? Seriously, I see this advice all the time. If you're shy, just go and talk to anyone you meet, you possibly will get friends and be happy forever. But they seem to forget that if just joining...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How do I get rid of my fear?!

Regardless of the fact that I can sometimes tell people that "in order to overcome your fear you must overcome whatever is causing it", but in my case, it seems to be an engraved natural reaction, or I just don't seem to...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Should I feel bad if I turn down girls I don't like?

Should I feel bad if I turn down girls I don't like? There are some girls that like me, but I don't like them. I like older women but I'm afraid of them. So should I choose girls my age that I don't like or try to...

Anonymous

(36-45)

A major fear is ruining my life. :( Help!

What do you do when you can't overcome your fear to let people in? I feel like it's ruining my life. I can't even have a proper relationship because I'm so shut down. And if there was an easy way to get over it I would...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why does the part of me that is scared of girls not go away even if I have something to drink?

I feel that alcohol does not even help me be able to overcome my fears of women.

Anonymous

(36-45)