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So many think, their soulmate is their daily online chat boyfriend/girlfriend, whom they may never meet.
A soulmate is not a fantasy where many infatuated towards a woman/man they have never spoke to or held hands or dated or met in person. A soulmate is not a one sided relationship where you are desperately wanting the one that got away. Or the friend zone/one sided relationship that you think you are her prince when she only sees you a toad. Or one waiting for a married man to divorce and sweep her feet away... all these are disillusions, one put in their head.
Your soulmate, may I share is one who you have been through life with and you gave your all. You want them to be happy and they the same to you. You can look into their eyes and say I love you after you have hurt their feelings and say I'm sorry and mean it. Then wipe each others tears away. You respect each other, laugh together and grow together. You have share your most intimate and most difficult part. If you have never make love or broken apart and made up, how can you call each other soulmate? If you go 9 yards, she will return that. That's what I call knowing you have each others back - a soulmate.
I experienced all that, now I know what soulmate means.

Ella is 18 years old. She is unemployed and lives off her parents dime while panhandling. She meets Dustin, a homeless high school dropout who is trying to find a job. He meets Ella and they talk for a little. They go on cheap, small dates, play board games and hold hands. Dustin felt really happy. One day while Ella's parents left, Ella sneaked Dustin in her home. They started talking then suddenly Dustin started crying. Dustin whimpered and said I'm a homeless high school dropout, I'm a felon, I'm not good enough to be with you, I am stupid, you shouldn't be with me then he started sobbing