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Okay, so, a while ago, I fell out with my 'best friend'. We had only been 'best friend's for a couple of years, but it felt like we had known each other forever. It started when her and her boyfriend broke up, and I had just got with a guy in my friendship group (we're still together, in case you're wondering :p). A week after her and her bf broke up, she started to call up my boyfriend once a week, which I thought was okay at first. Then she started calling him every night, and telling him that she fancied him. Naturally, I started to lose trust in her, and I asked my bf not to pick up the phone when she called (I hate it, but I am over-protective).
Two of my other friends decided that we should get a load of people together and go swimming. I didn't particularly want my 'best friend' to come with us, partly because I had lost trust in her, partly because she hated the people who organised it. I then told my boyfriend this, who then told his best friend. He told his best friend not to tell anyone, but he didn't listen, and then told my 'best friend'.
She then texted my boyfriend saying that I'm a control freak, and that I'm a bitch, and then asked him to chose between me and her. He then said me, and she said "f**k you, stay with that control freak if you want to. I don't care anymore. Bye!"
A few months later I tried to apologise to her, but she basically turned around and said that she hated me.

I just wanted to know if I was the one in the wrong here. If I should feel bad.

(I know this is very long, and I apologise for that).

Good things:
-He always complemented me.
- He chose me over his friends at times
- He accepted me without make up
- He was respectful to my family
- He helped out while at my house
- He talked to me all the time every day
- He was there for me when I cried or was hurt
- He made it known that I was his girlfriend

Bad:
- He talked about his friends that were girls a lot
- He never made plans first
- He never put as much effort into our relationship as I was
- He rarely said thank you when I paid for his food or other things.
- He talked to a girl who disrespected me
- He threw things up in my face about the one time he actually made plans
- He didn't accept the fact that I was trying my best to change my bad habits of trust issues and anxiety and paranoia which was something I couldn't help.
- He never really listened to me when I would give him advice.
- He rarely listened to me when I told him about any of my interests and often changed the subject.
- He didn't respect the fact that I didn't want him hanging out with other girls.
- Everytime we fought, he told his mom what I did wrong and not why I was mad at him in the first place.