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I know many guys keep female friendships wether they are in a relationship or not just in case there is a chance with one of them.

Not all guys do that but a great number of men do this (keeping friendships for the chance of a possibility with them)

Well I am in a relationship but for some reason or another we had kept breaking up and getting back together. Now he says it's very serious and wants to make a family with me and just be serious with me.

I have one guy friend who said he would marry me, I keep in touch with him and my boyfriend does not know about him, but today it kind of slipped out into a conversation and he got mad with me and wants to know what i talk about with him and why i'm even talking to him in private chats etc. and I felt scared to I deleted and removed everything about this friend because i don't want to ruin what I have now..

but I somehow feel it's wise to still keep him around not cheating but just in case my boyfriend and i split, i have someone as possibility.. I don't like to start from scratch looking for someone and this guy could be back up

it sounds bad but really would you guys do this?
even if it sounds bad, maybe it's a smart thing to do?
I'm not going to talk or flirt with him but just keep him as contact/friend

What do you guys think?
Advice?

My ex boyfriend is abuser. He also cheated on me, and threatened to expose my nudes (to make things worse, he is a cop!) ... And, of course I deleted all my contacts with him, and for 4-5 months it was all okay, I stopped having feelings for him, even though he continued to message me few times a month (and he still does) . And every time, we end up having an argument, about why we broke up, why don't I want to be with him again... He always says that he changed, that even though he did have side chicks he always loved me and he always ended up coming back to me, because I'm the only one who understood him etc. I am 99% sure that it is not true, but lately I kind of started missing him and thinking about him. Apart from things he has done, he always was really peotective and nice to me, and never hurt me beside things I already mentioned. I know, I don't have self respect, I am stupid for missing an abuser, but it's really not my choice, I just can't go on without him. I'm really afraid that the next time, I'll be able to forgive him. Should I do it? Do you believe he deserves another chance?

Last 3 days ago, I've decided to break up with my boyfriend. I go out from the house we lived together while my boyfriend is away in the City for work. I left a letter in his house. During this month my boyfriend has spouted many hurtful words to me like I don't love as girlfriend, dumb, useless, animal, cheap money I find rich girl, I cheated on you more than 3 times, I don't get horny to you, boring, I will not run after you, I'm not your prince, don't contact me anymore I block you. Moreover, there was a girl who chatted and called me on Facebook asking if we are still together with him and said they live together with him in another city. She said sorry has no any idea that he has a girlfriend because my boyfriend said we already break up many times.

I went back to my mother's house and didn't contact him for 2 days. Suddenly after 3 days my boyfriend texted me saying sorry I know I'm not the right guy for you, I'm trying to fix myself, I want to hear your voice and know how are you. I replied to his text very casual. Until he ask me if I still love him and he said to me "I love you so much."

I haven't replied to this text yet. I am confused if my boyfriend means this especially he has been very cold to me and now suddenly becomes hot.

I still love my boyfriend in my heart. However, I am not sure if he is willing to change for me and if he means this I love you so much after our breakup. I want my boyfriend to fully commit to me and treat me better if I give him a chance. :(

"HOW SHOULD I REPLY TO HIS TEXT AND HOW SHOULD I REACT TO HIM? (Pls comment and vote)