Search Results: don't want to be just a booty call

I've been hanging out/hu w this guy n we almost had sex a week ago and have been trying to hangout most nights, but i just dont know what to think of all of this. 2 nights ago he texts me this convo below at 2:55 in the morning (kinda makes me feel like shit but can't tell if i'm just overreacting?) he always only texts me at night.. sometimes like 10:30 or other times 1:00 am. were 18 so it's summer for us rn. pls read the convo and tell me what you think! IS HE using me to have sex? If we hangout and do have sex, do you think he'll stop talking to me after since he finally got it in? Am i his booty call, are we friends w benefits, are we hooking up? does he like me? I srsly need a guy's opinion... please help !!!
***also: im a virgin (besides how we almost had sex before & he knows i am
Him: "hey
can we actually actually hangout" Me: "Yeah we can if it ever happens" Him: "what are you doing" Me: "i'm at home, you?" Him: "I'm painting
but i'll be back in the area soon" Me: "haha. you're painting. Okay what are you painting
When" Him: "like an hour" Me: "Where are you even at?" Him: "just left actually
I was in ______" (a city near us) Me: "where are you headed" Him: "______" (city we live in) Me:"your house?" Him: "no _____ (his friend)
its by my house" Me: "Ohh okay" Him: "so do you want to chill" Me: "where" Him: "you can come here" Me: "Who is there?" Him: "(he says a name of some friend
I have liq" Me: "Let me see if ill be able to leave" HIm: "ok"
(then i didn't answer for 10 mins n he double texts saying): "you should comeeee" Me: "Why can't you just ask me at a normal time" Him: "idk"
(had noclue what 2 say so i answered 30 min later) : Me: "Okay well i can't now, we'll hangout tomorrow or something"
No response. This was 2 nights ago and he didn't hit me up last night. I really want to see him tonigt or soon and i do wanna have sex but i dont want to get used. HELP! Do i text him 2nite? what would i say?

Ok so i started seeing this guy 5 years ago. Well he was great i fell hard for him, but ran because I got scared. So I ran back to an ex I had been with for 14 years. Well over the winter i started seeing this other guy again. We got close and started talking and making plans to move in together. On Valentine's Day this year he wanted me to come over that morning. Long story short I didn't go that morning because i was tired. I ended up going over there that evening. he's a big video gamer. He ignored me and i ended up leaving hours later. He never contacted me again. I contacted him a month ago. He told me he didn't want to see me again not now and probably never! I told him I respected that and left him alone. Well now he's contacting me and asking me to come over. I dont know what to think. I dont want to be a booty call. I love him and always will. What does this mean, what should i do?

Well it's like this I'm a recent college graduate, most of the friends I made were very similar to.me in the not dating or into romance category. We were all very.nerdy never talked about boys dating etc. I'm a very big tomboy so were the rest of.my gaggle of girls. None of us have ever dated yeah it's sad were all 23-25 years old haha. Recenlty one of my buddies that was quite frankly the least.mature.most naive of us (basically SpongeBob with breasts) started getting flirted with by some dude and now they are making out in public and shit and.its like.really hit a nerve. What ever this feeling is its negative and i dont like it and can't pin point it. We were closer friends cause she was the only one who lived near my home town that I could visit easily. Im worried I'll lose her as a friend because I've seen too many times girls ditch their friends for guys and vice versa then get hurt. But they've ditched their friends in the process of a booty call so I don't know. Am I jealous? I've got no idea I've never dated but I also just act to much like a guy for a guy to want unless he was gay and I seem to fair girls anyway. I need done he'll guys and gals it's too the point where if I get in Facebook I feel like throwing my phone or computer at the wall or saying fuck you to everyone. I was taking a break from it for a few months now but today there was a video of the friends u was talking about making it with her new boyfriend and all of our group have kinda lost it. I'm the only one feeling negatively about it however. Everyone else is like "oh its so cute" fuck cute gah

I'm going to go punch stuff... our play a game I feel like a damn little kid.

I met this guy on Match.com, he's 48 and I'm 44. We both look/act much younger and into same high energy activities. Great conversations for 2 weeks, met for first date near the beach, walked back to his place to relax and meet his dog. Very good physical chemistry the whole time. watched tv.messed around (no sex) but very passionate. So much in common. Played with the dog.etc. Very gentlemanly. Passionate goodbye hugs/kisses, he wouldn't stop. Lots of compliments on my appearance. The next day, I texted him to say I had a great time and made reference to looking forward to seeing him again. He called me about 20 minutes later and said he wanted to clarify so he didn't mislead me.that he wasn't looking for a GF, and rambled on about how he doesn't want to have to call someone everyday, as he would just "shut down" from being suffocated.and is really busy with holidays coming up, and work, etc. I said "WELL, ITS OK. .YOU DONT HAVE TO SAY THAT.IF YOU DON'T WANT TO GO OUT AGAIN, NO PROBLEM.REALLY, WE CAN JUST SAY GOODBYE AND WE HAD FUN THAT NIGHT".He said several times "NO, I HAD A GREAT TIME WITH YOU, I LOVE YOUR HAIR (AND ALL KINDS OF OTHER STUFF) BUT EVERY NOW AND THEN.".or something like that.

I had to tell him that I'm OK with taking his lead, and seeing him, as he wants, casually, like once a month or so, but I'm wondering.WTF? I told him "LOOK, I'M NOT READING BRIDE MAGAZINE OR ANYTHING DUDE.IT WAS A FUN TIME, AND IF YOU WANT TO DO IT AGAIN.COOL.IF NOT, I GET IT". He said it's OK if I "text him" now and then, but he will get backt o me after Thanksgiving (which is about 3 weeks from the date.

Frankly, I don't think he will call. And I don't want to be "needy" and call or text him.it will only prove his point. But I told him that I don't like playing games, and we discussed during our date that we don't like one night stands.I thought he knew where I was coming from.

He is 2 years divorced. I'm single.

WHY IS HE BEING SUCH A FREAK?

thanks