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I have made a post about something similar but i wanna see what you guys think.
I have been talking to this guy for a little over a month , we have things in common, although there were a couple hiccups in the beginning we worked them through. We both like each other and we would either video call every other day or send snap videos.. we now made it a thing to video call every weekend and when we do its between 1-3 hours. He calls this a relationship.

We haven't met yet due to the pandemic and he said he's willing to wait and that he's in this for the long haul/prize at the end. He would say things like : i want you, need you, i really like you, compliments me a lot. Asks me questions. He seems to be willing to talk about things and be mature about things. He said he feels the L word but wants to hold back from saying it.. he told me right now its a lust feeling and he knows its too soon to say it. We're both not talking to anyone and just talking/interested in each other

My best friend pat.
When his girlfriend and him were together we didn't do nothing together and we talk from time to time.. but nothing more then that. Plus I had a boyfriend at the time

But in oct his girlfriend didn't want to work out the relationship. . and that same day I wanted to work it out with my boyfriend but he ended it that day.

That same day me and pat both admitted our feelings for each other
Etc
Well he told his cousin that he will give us a chance but he needs to get away from the city we r living in rn. Because all they do is gossip and shit like that


Well.. then.. the day after I spent the night. Literally. He and his ex were back together.. and he fucking snap at me saying like how he and his girl were together etc. I'm just like ok whatever
And he said in a message he didn't even like me. And he wants to be with her and her only.

But it was like a wk after they got back together. He started to talk to me again etc

pat. literally just confused the shit out of me.

He and his cousin were talking about how the relationship should be like trust honesty communication. . no jealousy etc and he was eyeing at me the whole time.

And then he touched my arm not once not twice but three times

And then he touched my finger not once but twice

And then I touched his finger by a mistake. ..


And he opened the door for me not twice but 3 times.


And now he told his so called girlfriend he loved her.. but they hardly talk on the phone they text more.. then talk and then he says he is married to her. And wants to have kids with her.. I mean hell she not even there to even help him him out nor there for his baptism.

But a few years ago she was there for his mom funeral and they went to school together. And her mom is pressuring him to get back together ( and now they r back together.. ) but fuck his FB and her fb says they are single.


What was his actions telling me? .
My best friend thinks pat likes me.

But what do u think?