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I’m going to be 27 in two weeks and I’ve never had success in dating. I don’t have a way to meet guys in person so I’ve only used dating apps. I wasn’t liking my pick of the litter from guys that messaged me first on the apps so I tried bumble. And while guys did reply to my initial messages, things died down at the same rate. I’ve been told I’m cute but can confidently say that I don’t get as much attention as the other female friends I’ve had. My former boss said she met her husband in college. Her husband said hi to her and she didn’t even notice him. He tried again and the rest is history, she is decent looking. I haven’t used the dating apps in a few weeks, I just don’t see how it’s so easy for some women. I really don’t think I come across as desperate, I probably have a hard time showing interest.

I am in my late twenties and never been in a real relationship. The one guy I did date, I felt like I had to settle because no one better came around. He was a decent person but I wasn’t physically attracted to him. I was always under the impression that my lack of attraction from guys was because of my weight.

A few years later, I’m still thick but definitely smaller than what I was before. I don’t have friends so I have to use the apps to meet people and as you’d assume it’s a disaster. I mean I’m told I’m cute, some say pretty etc but I just can’t find a man. The ones I was physically attracted to only want sex and the ones that pursue me have decent personalities but they’re too short for my preference or just not attractive to me.

I see women often that are average or maybe heavier than me, with guys I find good looking, and really wonder how they were able to find them. I feel if I settled with any of the guys I mentioned I attract, I will always feel bothered at the fact that I can’t get the kind of man I really want. So that’s why I stay single, it seems permanent considering I’m only getting older and told myself this would improve as the years go by.

I am in my mid twenties and never been in a real relationship. The one guy I did date, I felt like I had to settle because no one better came around. He was a decent person but I wasn’t physically attracted to him. I was always under the impression that my lack of attraction from guys was because of my weight.

A few years later, I’m still thick but definitely smaller than what I was before. I don’t have friends so I have to use the apps to meet people and as you’d assume it’s a disaster. I mean I’m told I’m cute, some say pretty etc but I just can’t find a man. The ones I was physically attracted to only want sex and the ones that pursue me have decent personalities but they’re too short for my preference or just not attractive to me.

I see women often that are average or maybe heavier than me, with guys I find good looking, and really wonder how they were able to find them. I feel if I settled with any of the guys I mentioned I attract, I will always feel bothered at the fact that I can’t get the kind of man I really want. So that’s why I stay single, it seems permanent considering I’m only getting older and told myself this would improve as the years go by.

Im going to be 27 later this year and feel very certain regarding my fate with dating. I’ve never been in a long term relationship nor brought a guy home to meet my family. I’ve just never been boy crazy like other women I’ve known, closest is all the celebs I like. I’ve tried the dating apps over the course of the years and gave up, it really isn’t worth it for me. I’m told I’m cute and feel like I should be decent looking enough to attract someone relatively attractive too. But no I just can’t find what I’m looking for. Would rather be single versus settle, it’s just really unfair you know. Dating apps are hit or miss…why am I so jinxed 😡