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So this is kind of embaressing to say. I'm 18 years old still a virgin never had a girlfriend and I haven't even kissed a girl. I'm a really nice guy sociable and what not and I'm usually good at making friends regardless of gender I'm just a bit shy especially with someone I dont know too well and I'm not exactly the most handsome guy on the block (though I wouldn't say I'm the ugliest either). I'm just really mediocre I guess when you add it all up :(. I would absolutely not say I'm desperate far from it it's just a bit sad to feel like you will probably end up dying alone and what not.

Do you think this lack of experience up until my age and sadly probably into my early 20s (I dont see myself being able to get a girlfriend any time soon) will make me even less desireable than I already am and less likely to ever get a girlfriend. I mean girls generaly want guys more experienced than them and absolutely not the other way around. Pleas be brutaly honest it's not like I'm not gonna find out ;).

So I am a virgin guy (20 years old), and I have a preference for virgin girls. This is because we are equal on inexperience, none of us have other partners to remember in a sexual way, and there is no baggage. I feel this is the most ideal way to go.

I have been back and forth on an interpersonal struggle as to whether or not I should expand my options and consider girls who are not virgins. As soon as I think about compromising, I think of other guys being with a girl I love and I cannot handle it emotionally. So really, I am still leaning on the desire for a virgin girl, but that does not mean I do not have second thoughts.

Now, I have found plenty of virgins, but I have to say most are not my type.

I am very traditional btw. I don't believe in hookups, one night stands, or friend with benefits.