My mom is harrassing me about my weight?

[Anonymous]

Weight loss is a struggling for me. I just started my diet last week. My mom and my sister always joke about my weight. I am size 12-14 and medium or large in shirts.I am 23. My mom and sister 250-300 pounds. My mom of all people knows my weight bother me. She knows. 2 weeks ago she accused me being pregnant which pissed me off. Today the same damn thing. She said you are the biggest you EVER been. She knows that pisses me off. I am to the point where I don't want to be her. No matter what they are going to pick on me about my weight even if I work out or diet. They still joke about it. I am about to leave my mom's house this now. I am so tired of this ****.

I am not pregnant. I am 23 year virgin.

Additional Details

Why that can't just worried about there own weight? yeah I need to lose about 30 pounds. But mind your business. Its my problem. I don't need you.

Updates

+1 y

My mom thinks I am pregnant or on birth control..She knows that bothers me. This is from a woman that use to ask her kids does she look fat or has she gained weight. Really? I never say thing like to people

[Krystina85]

I think the fact that your aware that you need to lose weight is something they feel threatened by.12-14 is not big at all! You could lose 20 pounds and be healthy...you said they are 250-300 pounds so I think they do it out of jealousy! I am so sorry that your mother and sister of all people make fun of you about it. I know its probably hard not to, but please don't take what they say to heart. People make fun of others to feel better about there own insecurities. Sounds like you need to separate yourself from them for a bit. If you decide you want to lose a few pounds, don't do it for anyone but yourself! I can guarantee it's all out of jealousy because your smaller, which is sad because family shouldn't be like that. They should be supportive.

[Belleza]

why does this sound so familiar? Jesus deja vu just hit me anyway your their goal weight - they hate looking at themselves so they pick on you - I understand telling you to not pay any attention to them won't help but just don't care - I would just get on her nerves - she accused me of being pregnant - yea mom I am. I am on birth control - yea mom I can get guys! But your not even fat in my opinion - just calm down and breathe - you need to realize that this you being angry is not worth it!

[foolycooly1001]

the fact that you are trying to lose weight makes them feel guilty about themselves, and they take it out on you

[TylerMMA]

wait, so your mom and sister are 250-300 pound walruses and yet they make fun of you for needing to lose 30?

[grandettehearts]

she probably is making fun of you to help her with her own weight struggles you shoulnd mind her to much beacause she obviosly has no place to be making fun of you or your weght since she is 250-300 and especialy since she is heavier than you

[kmhco]

Clearly they are just taking their own insecurities out on you. Whenever they mention your weight just walk away from them and ignore it.

[ArtyGirl]

You're pretty much their goal weight, they're thinking it sucks to be them.

[thelaziestKitty]

They're just being horrible. Don't listen. It's really sad that the people who were supposed to support you are bringing you down though.

[Anonymous]

Ugh I deal with the same thing. I know I shouldn't feel this way but seriously...I hate my mom.