Search Results: talking to unattractive guys

Why would he talk about other females in front of me like this?

We were on FT and somehow we got on the topic about how beautiful his manager is and how she has all the perfect qualities. He[20] even called her "the love of his life." Then, he went out of the way to ask his...

Hotpockets98

Xper 5 Age: 24

Regarding "Why don’t men make the first move [anymore]?"

(Just gonna say; this isn't directed at all women or anything. The ones out there it's directed to; they know who they are. This doesn't apply to good decent women out there; the few of you still left.) Some women...

MCheetah

Editor Age: 39

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Break Up & Divorce

What I Learned From My 9 Ex-Girlfriends (Part 1)

So, me being the inferior F-grade height I am, combined with being ugly, dark-skinned, having hypothyroidism (thus effortlessly overweight), as well as having had a Precious Puberty, which lead to at least two of these...

MCheetah

Editor Age: 39

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If woman look down on unattractive guys, then how do men typically view us?

I'm an unattractive guy No game/sexual experience/charm/confidence in sexual shit I mind my own but I've noticed that the majority of males always have A smirk that looks to ME to be on contempt A WIDE...

Bored97

Yoda Age: 30

Starting to see red flags need advice?

So I met this guy and we’ve only been talking for a few days he is pretty much everything I’ve been looking for in a guy from what I can tell so far anyways. However he keeps spamming me with messages and then calling...

Jemma_Elmore19

Xper 3 Age: 24

If I'm talking to a guy on Reddit and asks if he has any other social media and he says he's deleted it all, is that a red flag?

Is he unattractive? When I asked if he had other social media, he said "Nope, deleted it all. Never got into Insta or Twitter. Whatsapp too, because I'm a weird boi. My friends hate me. I'm an off-the-grid kind of...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why are females more disrespectful towards me out of other guys?

I'm an unattractive guy but I stay in my lane I don't bother anybody nor bother talking to them I stay VERY low key & even then a lot of girls & some older gals go out of their way to let me know they loath...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girls, are skinny guys unattractive?

I've been lifting weights for years, but my body stays skinny. Women really aren't interested in talking to me, and since they haven't even taken the chance to get to know me, it must be the way I look.

Jabbers

Xper 3 Age: 31

Why being attractive as a girl isn't all that it seems

I wanted to do this myTake for a while. For this myTake, im talking about the average pretty girl, not the celebrity type. And yes, i get that there may be some benefits to being attractive (ie possibly more boyfriends,...

Sangyoul2020

Xper 3 Age: 26

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Pretty enough to sleep with but not date?

My therapist told me that guys my age are like that sort of (looking for sex and stuff)... I kind of zoned out when we were talking about it. Sometimes I can't help but think in the back of my head, if only for a second,...

nojokecarmichael

Yoda Age: 29

When talking about your flaws in dating profiles, do women get a lot more more leeway to do this than men?

I some times hear females saying they wish men would be more honest early about their flaws. Also while swiping on dating apps I noticed women are much more likely to speak their minds in their profiles. I don’t...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Should I forgive a guy that said “she ain’t shit compared to my ex” to his friends whilst angry at me?

He said “fuck her she’s fat and crazy as fuck her sexting is shit she ain’t shit compared to my ex” he didn’t know I overheard Come to find out that he cheated on this ex too, she’s his one that got away I was...

Anonymous

(25-29)

What is it that makes me unattractive?

Basically, I just feel like I don’t get any attention in person. On dating apps, I can get matches and I do get a lot of likes, but it’s usually not even guys I want to hook up with, let alone have some type of...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Family & Friends

Why do girls seem to target me for my appearance but respect every other guy around me?

I've always been unattractive & somewhat comfortable with it because I ASSUMED I'd get less attention & THUS POTENTIALLY left alone... IN THEORY But on the contrary Almost every female takes notice of my in...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

If I get her back, who will she likely consider as her first love, me or him?

We met online when she was 17 (almost 18), and I was 25. We continued the online relationship until I met her in person shortly after her 18th birthday. We were "boyfriend" and "girlfriend", but mostly online. When we met...

Lighthouse21

Xper 2 Age: 31

We met online when she was 17 (almost 18), and I was 25. We continued the online relationship until I met her in person shortly after her 18th birthday. We were "boyfriend" and

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Why do girls go out of their way to let guys know they're unattractive to them?

I just went to breakfast with a couple of my work friends and I was talking about how I think the new hoodie I bought makes me feel like a 10. Then out of nowhere these other girls came over and said it doesn't suit me...

OlderThanILook

Xper 7 Age: 29

Am I ugly if only fat unattractive or creepy dudes approach me?

I am 5'4 and 110 pounds I have long brown hair, big blue eyes, pale skin. I have been told by many people that I am pretty. I used to play tons of sports in high school that kept me in shape. I am now 18, and I'm a...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Does that really mean that I look unattractive and ugly?

I was talking about marriage and the guys who've approached me, so a guy friend of mine said that only a fool will marry you and even said that the ones who've approached you, are they really men.. Does that mean that I...

Anonymous

(25-29)