Search Results: boring relationship

How to get over a guy that’s friendzones you?

so my friend at the time got me and this guy i work with “together” and he started talking to me more and being very flirty and nice and we went out for lunch and things were going really well. i got pretty close to him...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Family & Friends

Do you sometimes think your parents aren't qualified to have children?

I'm 21. My parents are financially dependent on me. I can't move out of the house to be more independent, because they can't deal with it emotionally. The family is constantly screaming. And I'm like sitting in a corner...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Is it possible for a relationship to be too perfect?

Perhaps it can become boring?

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

Guys, would you agree a girl is more attractive if she has hobbies?

I like a girl who has hobbies. Doesn't matter if we share the same hobbies, or if she enjoys something completely unique to her. I feel girls without hobbies are boring, and have nothing at all to add. If you have nothing...

CaptainClueless

Xper 5 Age: 31

I like a girl who has hobbies. Doesn't matter if we share the same hobbies, or if she enjoys something completely unique to her. I feel girls without hobbies are boring, and have

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Dating

Thoughts on How Not To Scare Off Girls

A lot of guys scratch their heads when good flirtatious vibes with a girl suddenly come to a screeching halt and we are left clueless as to why she went from really feeling our vibe to being completely repulsed. We often...

pavlove

Editor Age: 34

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Health & Fitness

How To Stay Positive

Believe a Positive Attitude is a Choice This step is hard to take at first. It's easy to think that people were either positive or negative. It's easy to blame your negativity on all kinds of outside forces like fate,...

RedRobin

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Relationships

Is my boyfriend unhappy in the relationship? Does he not want to be with me anymore?

Anonymous

(30-35)

First up, me and my boyfriend been together for nearly 1 and a half years We usually see each other once or twice a week and calls me everyday But recently we have been seeing each

First up, me and my boyfriend been together for nearly 1 and a half years
We usually see each other once or twice a week and calls me everyday
But recently we have been seeing each other nearly everyday
he's mostly the one initiating the calls everyday and asking me to go out nearly everyday this week and he's still very affectionate - still hugs and kiss me whenever we are together and he would put his arm around me or hold my hand in public
But when he called me last night, we had this conversation that made think he's unhappy being with me:
Him - im gonna be honest.. you're quite controlling. Even my mum noticed.
Me - how?
Him - you are kinda controlling. Like today i told u that i wanna get tipsy at work and u keep asking why and saying "no dont do that".. i can do whatever i feel like. Its for fun. Any guy would run away if they think their girlfriend is trying to control us
Me - im not trying to control u
Him - it feels like it. And you always take things seriously. Joke around more. Its not fun you know?
Me - so u think im boring?
Him - well yeah sometimes. You dont talk much. You dont joke around. You take evrything srsly. And that gets boring
Me - so you're not happy with me?
Him - i didn't say that. Im happy with u. you're the best partner I've ever had and thats the truth. Its just that i needed to tell u all this. I dont like being controlled and i want u to talk more. Sometimes i feel like im talking to a brick wall. You only talk if i talk to you. You only respond. Its frustrating sometimes.
Me - ok. Sounds like ur not happy with me. Just leave if u dont wanna be with me
Him - no im not saying that. you're taking it the wrong way. I am happy with u. If i wasn't, i wouldn't be with you. Simple. If i dont want something, i dont want it. I would leave. If i didn't care, i wouldn't call back when you're pissed off. I wanna be with u but i just wish you would talk more. You have good qualities like you're loyal, you're a good girl, you're good listener and everything else you're good.

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Relationships

Need advice on which guy might be better for a relationship point of view? Taking in all different aspects to the relationship too, age etc etc?

I haven’t know either of them V long, (THEY BOTH KNOW MY AGE)) Guy No 1 I’m 16, he turns 21 in Easter, I turn 17 in summer. Personality: genuinely nice guy, goofy and funny but mature in general, no experience with...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Why am I unlucky with dating?

Ok so there was a guy I liked who I met on tinder everything was good. We hit it off through texting he was a pretty good texter we hung out once and that was that we were suppose to go on official date later. He said he...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

Why bother with relationships and put effort into forming and maintaining them when they'll just break your heart eventually?

Pretty much as the title says. Before anyone says anything I have had a relationship before which lasted 2 years so I know what it feels like to be in one. After a year of dating and getting nowhere combined with...

Varrict

Xper 4 Age: 32

Other

How many people will say/ wish me a 'Happy 20th Birthday'?

I am now 20 years old, wow lol. I know this question is random, but today is my 20th birthday, and I have no friends or family who live near by or able to come see me to wish me happy birthday cause its sooo close to...

Shane_B

Xper 7 Age: 28

Dating

Is being 18 and having dated 4 girls a bad thing?

I'm 18 and I've only dated 4 girls my last relationship didn't go well because the girl said I was boring and weird, I've tried to get over her but I can't seem to find anyone else...

bglenn190

Xper 4 Age: 26

Other

Why can't I be cold-blooded?

I guess it must take a lot to be cold and have no guilt at all. These are 3 occasions and all of them always resulting in either me feeling guilty or doing the right thing in the end. 6th grade: My 4 friends kept...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

How do I talk to my boyfriend about his drinking?

This is probably something that always comes up in our relationship. And I hate it. A few times my boyfriend went out drinking, he has come home violent. Last time we went out drinking together, he wasn't bad, if...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

What does he mean when he says he wants to take it slow as he is affraid that he is going to quickly get bored of me?

So we have been dating 2 years before but not all was well. So we broke up. He didn't want to go anywhere with me (we were 15-16 something and had no clue about relationships) and I admit I didn't do much with my life at...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

Is he losing interest in me or am I overreacting?

My ex and I broke up 2 months ago because he wasn't ready for a relationship because he wanted to get himself together financially and mentally and said he was not able to give me what I deserve because he is not mentally...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

Why did my ex do this?

My ex & I agreed to still be close friends. He broke up with me about 2 months ago because he wasn’t ready for a relationship & needed to get himself together financially & mentally & said if we were meant to be, we will...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

Did my ex throw shade at me?

My ex and I still talk but as close friends. He broke up with me because he wasn’t ready for a relationship due to needing to get himself together financially & mentally. So I told him that was fine. He said if the...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

Girls, I can’t seem to talk to anyone I know about this... can girls look past me in a wheelchair?

Hi Harri I’m 22 year old. Last December I was admitted to hospital for 3 months (I’ll spare you all the boring details) basically I went in walking and came out in a wheelchair. Now I was told this may only last a couple...

Harri95

Xper 4 Age: 31

Relationships

Unemployed and we are always togather... Could grtting jobs and time apart fix my relationship?

I find I've started snooping through my boyfriends phone and created habit. I've now ceased from doing so as it became boring as I l literally can't be surprised by anything anymore. We have begun to fight daily almost...

LoveLock1288

Xper 4 Age: 38