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So I bought my bf a really nice present for Christmas and he was planning to do the same. He was going to get me some graphic novels but he let it slip and then said I could just read it online so he would get me something else. Two months later, there's still nothing. Add to that the fact he doesn't spend much time with me anymore, he always says that he's busy working but he'll send me snaps of his friends when he's off work. His only days off are Mondays and he's started to blow me off on those days too saying that he's tired and he needs to study. When we do hang out, we don't go places anymore. We just have sex and watch tv. We haven't been on a date in months.

Week before last I got stomach flu and he was so sweet and attentive. I'd told him before that I felt neglected and he said he was sorry, he's just been busy. But after I got sick he was sweet and I thought he was making an effort. So on Friday I said "what are we doing for vday" and he said that he was working and it was a better idea to go out Sunday, less people. 2pm Sunday I ask where we're going, he says he has work until 8pm and he didn't feel like doing anything. I was clearly upset but all he said was "sorry" and changed the subject.

I love this guy so much, we've been together 5 months (18F/22M). I feel physical pain when thinking about letting go of him, but every time I try to bring up my feelings or talk about something serious he just ignores it. He doesn't like talking about hard stuff. What do I do? I was thinking about giving him one more month then breaking it off. Also, I think he might be broke because he's stressed out about student loans but maybe he doesn't want to admit he can't do the same things for me he used to? I don't know

When I was 16 my parents got a divorce. My mom had another guy and left my father for him. That guy ended up being a psycho (she met him online). My father had been a drug addict and my mother was not and she couldn't take it anymore. She took me with her to go live with this strange man. After they broke up my mom started to slut around hooking up with guys half her age and various people. She started to brag about all the guys she'd get. I would get upset because who wants to hear about their mom screwing guys? Anyways, she eventually tamed down and I knew she was seeing someone. She wouldn't say who for the longest time. I suspected it was her best guy friend. It turned out to be my uncle. Yes, my uncle. They're step brother and sister but grew up in the same house together and had always called each other brother and sister. He had always been my uncle. He had a wife and cheated on her every chance he got. My mom some how thought he wouldn't cheat on her. Well, eventually it quit (long story short). And now she has a different boyfriend. She still doesn't understand that it's incredibly screwed up that she tried to get with her brother. Her argument is that there isn't any blood. She would talk to him on the phone and say that he's her brother! If you call someone your brother and for 40 years feel like they're your brother then there's no need to have blood in the mix! You are freaking brother and sister! Since this whole incident I haven't been able to look at my mom the same. It's scarred me for life and I'm not sure if I'll ever get over it. I've never told anyone about this so my question is, is it screwed up that she almost got with her step brother?