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I've been on and off with the same girl for a few years. We keep breaking up because of religious difference. The first time we were broken up for a long time, we we're apart for 18 months before we got into contact to discuss our breakup. To which she declared she didn't want to see me again. Within 8 months she contacted me and we got back together after a few weeks.
We broke up after being together for 9 months because of her decision to go on a mission and she acted different because of it. After her 18 month mission I never heard from her. But I ran into her again after a few months and had another conversation about our relationship and her religion and she said the same thing. But while we were together, she said she wanted to marry me.
Both times now, the same series of events have happened;
I've started dating someone and we break up because they aren't over their ex
I would get a promotion at work
I started getting signs the girl I'm asking about is checking my social media
I won't get back together with the girl who isn't over their ex
Now today, the same person won the opening race of a sport I love.
Even my friends believe she is looking at my social media.
Is this all just coincidence? Cause it's going through the same timeline pretty well.