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It seems like now every time I think a guy likes me or something like that it always turns out that they like my friends not me in any case. When I was a freshman I got asked out once and that has been the only case of which I've actually gotten an almost chance to have a boyfriend until this year one of my guy friends asked told me he liked me but I wasn't attracted to him at all I just started being after he told me he did for some reason I don't really think he liked me I think he just wanted to have sex with me because he didn't ask me out or anything basically said "I like you as more than a friend & do you wanna make out with me?" I said yeah but he wanted to move up that same day sexually and I didn't so he stopped talking to me for a long time and now his calling me again because he got dumped again. But anyways I kinda want to know why guys really aren't attracted to me. And usually when a guy says I'm hot its only sexually I've been told by a few guys that I'd be the perfect 2nd girl in a three way.(btw I don't take that as a complement.) and a little more than the normal amount of girls/women tell me that I'm really hot. Example: I swear this came out of one of my female teachers mouth and my females bosses "wow your so pretty! I'm sorry if I stare." and girls do sometimes but never guys. Does that mean I look like a guy and that's why guys don't like me? I am black and I'm not usually atracted to any other race than white guys could it be a race thing beacuse ever time I ask a guy I'm atteracted to they say something like "no I don't date black girls". and I'm using EVERYTIME in its correct usuage not once have I ever gotten anything else.