Recently she got busy at work and it seems that something may have happened at home with her husband. He is jealous and suffers from inferiority because of his job. He doesn't like the fact that his wife is always busy but she is just trying to get away from his drinking and accusations.
The next time I saw her she was acting distant and a little cold. I spoke with her about it because she wasn't texting or calling. She said that she was dealing with some issues and didn't want to talk about it. She mentioned that she needed to change the way was she was with her friends.
Since then I have found out that her husband gave her a hard time. Even a gift I gave to her and her husband ended up back on her desk at work. She gave me an excuse which I later found out was not true. her husband apparently gave her grief about it. she also got a couple of anonymous texts which were rude about her husband and mentioned me. I can only assume it hinted at some sort of affair going on. Since then she has acted distant and not as friendly as before. Just the other day she seemed to have opened up a little more, smiling and having short conversations but not like before. If we are talking she will tend to look more at a third party rather than at me. She almost finds it difficult giving me any lengthy eye contact. I have and will always respect her. I have never touched her inappropriately or confessed any feelings for her. We were just 2 people who got on well, understood each other and confided in one another. We helped each other through some tough times. A great source of mutual encouragement.
I have never made a play for her as she is married even though I know she is unhappy. We do click but I really do miss her friendship, but I am mindful that it may have affected the marriage.
What is the best thing to do?? Does she hate me?? or is she avoiding out of embarrassment?? Thanks!!
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