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A lot of people, ESPECIALLY guys who have been friendzoned by girls, confuse the two, but there is a difference.

With the friendzone, they never had any sexual/romantic/physical/whatever attraction to you to begin with, and you're deluding yourself by believing otherwise.

The whole "admired from afar" thing is what most guys (and writers of Hollywood romantic comedies) THINK the friendzone is: They ARE into you, at least on some level, there are even mutual friends that can see it, but for whatever reason, they stubbornly refuse to actually act on these feelings. In some ways it's like dealing with someone who's been indoctrinated: That part of them that's into shines through, but whatever it is that holding her back takes over. Is their a chance that you can get them to come around? Yes. But there's also the danger of them taking the cowardly way out, cutting you out of their life completely so they don't have to deal with these feelings anymore.

So which would feel worse for you?