Search Results: not looking for a relationship right now

How do I stop being addicted to love?

I’m 21. I’ve only been in one relationship in my life, but it lasted for 5 months. It was over 3 months ago that I was dumped out of the blue. I’m over the relationship, but now sometimes I just feel sad. Whenever it’s...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Am I just dumb for thinking he may care?

This guy and I had a rocky start. He and my friend liked eachother on and off for years but never got together because she just liked attention. He got sick of her games and started pursuing me hard. I rejected him...

Anonymous

(36-45)

To All The Boys I’VE Loved Before

Dear A.H. When I first came to live with the family who later adopted me, you were one of the first kids I met at church. We were both in the kindergarten group, and you were instantly friendly and kind to me. I liked you...

KaylaJoy

Xper 7 Age: 26

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Are two genuine people are a good match?

I started talking with my female neighbor recently. she has a genuine trait as well as I do. I'm very comfortable around her and we have chemistry. Right now we're sending letters so she can see the real me before she...

scott04sa22

Guru Age: 40

Girl's Behavior

I Wish A Guy Would Reject Me This Way

A clear rejection is always better than a fake promise.- Rihanna A Mohammed If you have ever dated, you’ve been on both ends of rejection. You have done the rejecting and been rejected. I’ve definitely had my fair share...

little_bird1

Guru Age: 37

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Help with crush?

I was so close to becoming her boyfriend. We hanged out a few more times, meeted up at party's. I even fell asleep with her in my arms. And she knows about my scars, not the reason yet, but i will tell her when i am ready...

justaboy_

Xper 4 Age: 22

Break Up & Divorce

Why do I get this feeling whenever I see any one I used to be romantically involved with?

Im actually 22 not under 18 that was a mistake i made whilst signing up. Not to long ago id always had very dysfunctional relationships with men and how to approach my feelings towards them. When i think back to it, i...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Am I right for ignoring him?

Was seeing a guy for a few weeks. I said I'm looking for a relationship, he said he wants to take it slow and see how things are going. Then we had sex (I know I gave it too soon, fuck it). Then I didn't hear from him for...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What do you do when your boyfriend doesn't take you seriously?

Our relationship is fine and we are happy but I noticed he has stopped taking me seriously when it comes to most things. He literally jokes about everything now. He laughs when I am having a bad day, laughs when I get...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why doesn't he want to be just friends?

He said he doesn't want a relationship because he's been hurt before, that right now (been a year) he's looking for a friends with benefits kinda relationship, doesn't want emotional attachment. I'm not on the same page,...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Flirting

Is my professor trying to show interest in me?

Having a friendly relationship with a professor when you work in small groups is a welcomed thing, right? It makes the work easier and the atmosphere more relaxed to work in. Now, I don't know if how he's behaved...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Tinder guy says he’s just looking to meet new people, but then talks about introducing me to his friends, etc?

Okay so before everybody says “well it’s tinder, what do you expect”... I know lol. I got out of a very abusive relationship in January and I finally feel like I’m healed from that and ready to put myself out there again....

Anonymous

(25-29)

Break Up & Divorce

Did I screw up a rekindling Chance with my ex girlfriend (3yrs)?

Me (24) and my ex girlfriend (24) split up 3 years ago today. She broke it off with me because I had become complacent and lazy in the relationship. We went on to No Contact for a few months after my pathetic pleas until...

Cchance11

Xper 4 Age: 30

Ex boyfriend (M 23) wants to take it slow with me (F21)?

So my ex-bf and I started dating around 3 months ago where we both (but mostly him) rushed into a relationship. We dated for a couple of days and were boyfriend and girlfriend super early. He said "I love you" super early...

holly6090

Xper 7 Age: 27

Ex boyfriend (M 23) wants to "take it slow" for now (F 21)?

holly6090

Xper 7 Age: 27

Is there ulteriour motive behind his behaviour or it is only joking as he says?

He's friend of mine for few years now. He is 9 years younger then I am. Same passion for music connected us and we hit it off from the start. Our relationship was all joking and goofing around. Last few months we...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Women call men dogs but sleep with taken men?

So this is abit of mytake. I'm not going to pretend to be innocent, I've always had a thing for sleeping with men in relationships. I found it sexually arousing. I didn't feel like I was better than their gfs when I...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Religion & Spirituality

Atheists/Non-religious People with Very Religious Parents - What are your Boundaries? Do you avoid discussing religion with them? Advice?

I set a goal to final limit communication with my fundamentalist mother, but it has been difficult. I grew up an only child, in an evangelical family. I've been an atheist since about 13. My mother still tries to force...

Anonymous

(36-45)