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Like for example if a woman likes a man and acts on her feelings by pursuing him, and he kind of backs off in a shy way, knowing at that time, he had fear of being in a relationship out of maybe not wanting drama in his life, if the relationship didn't work out... how often do you see a woman would still continue to win him over just to prove to him that she can be a suitable mate to him? She would of already gotten over him, knowing if she would continue to hope that he opens up to her, that would be beneath her cause she wants to feel like a grand prize. (Which I disagree)... But if I'm wrong about there are some women who do win a second chance at wanting her male crush, then give me a story.

Guys on the other hand if he pursues a woman but she wasn't interested in him at first cause she thought all he wants to do is play games, but still he didn't let that stop him from winning her trust, then all of a sudden she changes her mind about him and from then on they became a couple and get married.

After what I just said, does this means men need women more than women need men? Like men have to have women just to feel happy in complete in society, but women on the other hand don't need men, women just feel like having a man in her life is just a bonus.

Me as a guy I feel like having a woman in my life is a only a bonus, as long as I have friends and family that care about me and a great job to support myself, then there's no way I should feel like I'm miserable... regardless of how many people will tell me "dude you need to get laid" I won't live my life base on their opinion. If a woman is single and enjoying life, you never hear people tell her "girl you need to get laid", and to me that's a double standard.