Search Results: the honest approach

I see a ton of questions on here about guys dealing with hairloss young or old, and I have kind of followed some I won't lie I am self conscious of my condtion, effectively my body went through a system shock that to help recover it cut resources to non essentials hair being one of them so if I grew it out it would just be thin and crappy looking, no recovery. However I wasn't like some who obsess over it, I figured I pulled it off decent enough that while it was probably not preffered, it wouldn't be a dealbreaker to a whole lot.

Anyway I have posted my picture a few months back asking for an honest rate and I've noticed that (in person at least) many girls say im good looking but still can't get past the lack of hair, so I'm kinda concerned now, I do have higher standards myself just being straighforward and encouraging honesty here, girls around my age, if a guy looking like me in the pics approached you at college or at a party etc would you be willing to give him a shot or get serious with a guy like me (just the physical part assume mentally we get along of course) or not? its not so much about the hair i'm worried about just me altogether. (also the paleness is just my skin color, I can't tan even when I try) I'd like to know my marketability so to speak...

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and this last one is just to show my headshape is decent bald

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my cousin is pretty self conscious about how he looks since he lost his hair to early balding brought on by TE at 19, he's only 20 just startin gcollege and there's girls he's into but he's worried without hair they're out of his league or won't be interested. I tried tellling him I don't believe no hair lowers his 'league' however I do understand looks matter, yes he does have high standards but I know him and he'd be a legit sweetheart to a girl not a player so I don't blame him for holding his standards high, I just hope to boost his self esteem a bit, so beneath are some pictures from a family vacation I have of him, tell me what you think of him, is he date-able to you? Does no hair put him in a low league like he's worried, or do you think he still looks good enough he can go for what he pleases? Be honest, worst case I just don't tell him (lets hope he doesn't see it in that case as he has GaG) however I doubt itll be bad, still cold honesty is appreciated. and please go just on looks, yeah if you know a guy it can do a lot but just picture if a guy like him approached you at a party or after class etc.

not really sure whats up with the links sorry you'll have to click, and he's about average height 5'10 and works out more than most people I know yet doesn't get much muscle haha, he is in decent shape though

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I've seen guys post about hair-loss and baldness, and in a way it comforts me to know I'm not alone, and I posted a pic of me before asking if my head shape was decent but I gotta wonder how I would rate in the young dating scene, anyway I have a scalp condition called TE, it would take too long to explain it but I can't grow scalp hair and I decided to shave my head, (I'm 20) and I'll be starting college soon and would appreciate honesty on if I can have confidence in my looks, so girls if I approached you would you be put off or turned off by my bald head? Be honest please, I honestly say looks are a deal breaker factor for me so please return the honesty favor. Also I was always told to put two good pics and one not so good one so people know the whole view in pictures that's why there's the crappy mirror selfie haha. Personally if I knew I could get an attractive girl I'll really like I wouldn't give two shits about no hair, so while I am concerned it hasn't destroyed my self image like some guys.

NOTE!!!:please only answer the poll if you are lighter skinned, nothing against darker races but I seen it asked here before if darker complexions like shaved heads more and I'm doing a study about races finding different traits aesthetically pleasing for school and want to factor this in, so if you're black or darker skinned feel free to leave a comment but please only do the poll if you're lighter complexioned, as that's my control group in the study. (For this section at least) Please don't take that as against any race etc it's just for a study...

but yeah girls could you be attracted to me if I approached you? Would you give a guy like me a shot? (Assume personality works and that you're available, just base on physical for this question please)