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Here are some facts about us

- We’ve been together for about a year
- Age difference is 5 years. I’m 25, she’s 20.
- She lives in Germany and we met through our mutual friends

When we were in the honey moon phase, I wanted to talk to her everyday. But not anymore.
Let me explain this...

I think I don’t miss my girlfriend as much as she does. Even though she’s very mature for her age, she can still be little childish about some stuff. I don’t mean to say she’s clingy because she certainly isn’t. However, I don’t feel the need to talk to her as much as she wants to.

I love her so much. I’m thinking about asking her to marry me when she finished university. We get along super well, our conversation are great and I don’t want to lose her.

But this doesn’t mean I want to talk/texts as much as she wants to. She doesn’t want to talk everyday or anything, it’s more liek 2-3 as week.

She sometimes says to me “i know you love me but why don’t you show it to me?” But for me, I think the fact I love her is what matters, not just some texts. Because isn’t that what’s important?

She said “you used to give me attention and time but now I’m the least priority in your life” . I know she’s sad especially because we’re in a lomg distance relationship.

I want to make this work, and make her less sad but at the same time I don’t know if I’m being unreasonable or not.

What do y’all think?

Hello.
Known this woman for two years. We are coworkers and always got along fine. Turns out at first she liked me and thought I was attractive. I know this because her friends told me a few months ago and even she admitted to it. Good.
When we first met I never paid attention to her but eventually she changed something about her and stood out. She was attractive and very sweet, I noticed. I confessed to her I liked her and wanted to go out with her. She told me no but we continued meeting at work and still interacted normally. I know she still likes me and all and I'm like then why won't you give me a chance to try? She kept telling me she needs space, that she's busy. I don't want to be clingy, because I'm the complete opposite of that but I like her, she likes me, so what's the hold up? Turns out she's getting to know someone else but never told me. I told her a couple of times I don't get offended, she won't hurt my feeling but I want a NO, not a "I'm busy". I'm guessing she can't bring herself up to being so direct but goddamn I feel so played and manipulated. Like she's considering her options. She's started asking me questions about my work and what I want for the future and I wasn't born yesterday, but just tell me you are closer to someone else than with me. If he doesn't work out then I guess I'm next? I don't know what to do. I feel like I want to play her stupid game and start going out with other women, make her jealous. I know it's so bad and I hate it but it's been a year since I confessed. Really now... I really like her but I feel the impulse of just cutting ties with her. I cannot believe.
Is this normal? Do grown mature women do this? By getting to know him I mean being really touchy with him. She once told me she couldn't say because "I have to consider if a person is good or not". At first I thought she was talking about me and I'm like yeah I'm a good person, I try. Now I see it's the other guy; if he's not good then I'll consider you