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My sister's friend has been back to her country with her parents since 2012. The reasons are unknown.

Base on the story, the boyfriend had issues with the mother. The lady treated him horrible. Then they went back to their country. The guy called and she issued him a long fake apology over the phone and has faked a friendship with him for 7-8 years as a way to urge him to bring gifts and come and fix their papers, to get him to marry her daughter (throught marriage visa) since he's a permanent resident.

The guy had another thing in mind and that was to come and stay in her country instead once he becomes a US citizen. That's when the mother kept insisting that they get married in the US. He already knew she was being a fake, manipulative person but that confirmed it all. Only recently in Sept of 2020, bad things happened to her and suddenly she's sorry for everything and finally wants nothing but their happiness. Too late though... the guy doesn't want her friendship at all. If you had to grade this, how cruel is using people as a ticket to get you or someone else a Green Card?

I met a very handsome foreign man and immediately fall into him, however I am confused if he love me, use me or fool me?

On our first date, we immediately had sex and he was lashing out his failures and dreams in life. He was talking most about hi while I was only listening. After that, he became my boyfriend. He has health problem and so I did helped him in applying for a medical insurance. After a week, he ask to borrow money from me to pay for his house rent. And, I noticed when we went to eat in a restaurant he asked me to pay for all the orders and seems like he doesn’t care about it. A month after, he asked me to have a motorbike loan, cook and clean for him, rent car, register for business and have a bank loan or find investors. Me without hesitation did helped him a lot.

Few months, after I noticed him being demanding in meeting at night or sleeping over in his house. If I don’t, he gets overly mad and threatening me to find other girls. But if I comply to all his demands and wishes, he says to me that he loves me a lot and he wants to marry me one day and make a family with me.

However, while we are in a inclusive relationship and was able to met his friends and sister. I still noticed him Texting or chatting with other girls which he proclaimed as friends. I caught him cheating on bed for one time but I forgave him. He did really work on that, he tried to cook for me and Clean for me and treats me like a princess.

But few months after, I lost a lot of money due to a scam investment and had loans. I wasn’t able to give him anymore money. He got mad and most of the time insulting me useless. One day, I found him cheating again with another woman who has more money. And he left me for her. He said he already get what he wants in a girlfriend.