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I never had a girlfriend in my life. Sometimes I was busy in academics , sometimes in multiple hobbies. I have tried sometimes but never had any luck. There’s a story I would like to share , read it if you have time
There was a girl , I met in college. We became friends really soon. She told me she found my qualities and me admirable. After two months of meeting she got involved with guy 1 . And one day told me that guy 1 was not her lover instead he forced her into sex and threatened her. Which was actually true. So I defended her , as being a friend. Somehow she stopped talking with me after. I thought she needed time for healing and it’s ok. Then after one month she contacted me again and told me the actual story. She had a guy 2 from tinder for casual sex. Somehow she got attached and the guy left her and she told those to guy 1 and he took an advantage of her vulnerability. Now she was completely devastated and wanted to commit suicide. I took her to doctor. I always had a gentle heart (my biggest weakness ) . I grew up helping people , doing charitable work. So in that time I cooked for her , helped her in studies and somehow I caught up feelings for her. When I told her about them. She told me guys like me are only valuable when women start to search for husband , my talents don’t matter. She knew I never had a girlfriend before. She though me as a loser and many other hurtful things and left. Well she could have just said no I won’t mind.

Actually being single for this long I have accepted that girls don’t like good guys anymore. Said no to casual flings cause I wanted love. Why I always get bad karma 😔, even though I never hunted anyone.

Even when guys just want to have a casual fling or overcome attraction, the reason we go after her heart is because... the way to a women's everything is through her heart. Are men therefore guilty of playing and cheating on her emotions? Would you get headway if you made your primal wants clear from the start? Have you lived through your pants about how much you love and admire her only to bed her?