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Search Results: choosing between his ex and me
Need a male opinion?
Being seeing a guy for 4 months. Both in our early-mid thirties. Dude said he loved me after a couple of months. He got out of a long term relationship a little over a year ago now. Insisted he was ready, despite my...
AmberSzekowski
Xper 4 Age: 40 An Ex and a Bad Break-Up vs. a Truly Awesome Guy: Which Do I Choose?
So I am sure we have mostly all been there and this wraps our head up in knots, and I wanted to get my thoughts out before I go stir crazy... I was with Guy A for 4 years and while he was not perfect for me I molded...
Anonymous
(36-45) How do I make the right decision between my current boyfriend and my ex, how do I choose?
I dated my ex for 5 years it was something special (we were engaged) until the last 2 years of the relationship he changed completely ( I believed he was having some mental issues ) we couldn`t have a conversation or go...
Anonymous
(36-45) The Soulmate Experience with Mali and Joe: You DON'T Have to Fight, and How Jealousy Can be Healthy
Bitter about relationships? Don't like the idea of dating because it seems futile? Refuse to believe in the idea of a "soulmate?" Maybe it's just because we're all conditioned to be bitter and dismissive and...
Fathoms77
Editor Age: 47 I can't choose between 2 guys. Can you help me figure things out?
I've known Guy#1 for about 5 months. Even a blind man could see that we shared mutual interest. We kinda sent each other mixed signals and our "frienship" has been a bit ambiguous since. He made a couple moves on me like...
S0ph5t3R
Xper 6 Age: 30 In Retort, 10 Helpful Upbeat Break-Up Songs To Get You On Feet
After reading the Take by @EllieLexis513 5 Break Up Songs By Female Artists I couldn't help but think there are a lot more up beat and less lamenting break up songs out there. I'd like to point out I'm not belittling...
He Needs Time To Choose Between His Ex and Me?
We've been dating for about 4 months now. Our connection is undeniable, and both have strong feelings for each other. But recently he told me his ex has been contacting him and trying to make things work. He has told her...
nov31
Xper 4 Age: 41 Should I go see him?
Me and my best friend/ex-boyfriend got into a fight in January and we haven't spoken since. He said in his last message that I shouldn't contact him or email him. I never replied and just left it at that. The argument...
Anonymous
(30-35) How do I choose between two guys that really like me?
Started off with these guys that I've known from the same place at the same time. Not realizing that they both had taken a liking to me, one of them chooses to talk to me. I liked this one at first and he's really cute...
Inthebook
Xper 5 Age: 27 I asked him to choose, and he refused, what should I do?
He and my ex best friend kissed, we ended the thing we had. I didn't talk to him for 4months. One of my "friends" was playing at two sides, i started doubting she was against me when she acted as if she was against her,...
Anonymous
(25-29) Going to be an uncle, how should I feel?
Just found out my estranged brother is having a child with an ex. I feel like I should be really excited about being an uncle but the reality is it's just a thing that is happening to some strangers, and the one I kind...
Anonymous
(36-45) Coming back together?
Hi, so I need opinion of someone who is not envolved in the situation. Me and my (now) ex met at work, i'm 21, he's 26. We were really close friends for 6 months until we started dating but by this time everyone knew we...
martha51
Xper 4 Age: 31 STANDARDS. PERSONAL PREFERENCES. Does it really matter?
Okay, so here's the deal. I have a boyfriend, and he is 6 years older than me. All in all everything is fine. But my question is about other things.. His ex, was 6 years older than me, and well. Her body type was way off....
Anonymous
(25-29) Dr. Jamie Turndorf aka Dr. Love: Healing Old Scars, Love Truly Never Dies
A self-proclaimed love doctor with an enviable love story of her own. A desire to help others transformed and in fact increased by personal loss. Science blended with spirituality, infused with an ardent and encouraging...
Fathoms77
Editor Age: 47 He lied to me once before?
We were engaged (arranged). He had a girlfriend who broke up with him when she found out about our engagement. He didn't tell me till 2 years after (we got engaged back home when he lives but he stayed back due to...
Anonymous
(36-45) Choosing between someone you care for and have a great history with, and someone who's new whom you have undeniable chemistry and passion for?
Basically my ex and I have been together for nearly a year. He's a great guy, loves the hell out of me, is respectful, has always been there for me. When we were together and having problems I met this amazing guy, we...
RestlessYouth_
Xper 6 Age: 32 Similarities Between "Nice Guys" and "Sluts"
Blah, blah you think this is just one of thousands of takes i've written about comparisons. This is actually important because it goes along with a very important I want people to understand: trying so hard is usually...
pavlove
Editor Age: 34 Guys, Why does he keep bringing his ex up :/ ?
Okay so my boyfriend brings up his ex sometimes. He did this before we were dating back when we were just bestfriends too. He told me before we were dating that he didn't really like her that much and I asked if he did in...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why do I feel like it's not over?
I'm hurt that my ex left me again for the same girl. Well, he's technically not together. He said he doesn't see him getting back with her but, he "loves" her and he'll do whatever it is to make her happy. I'm hurt more...
Anonymous
(30-35) How do I choose between my boyfriend and my ex?
So I have a dilemma, I've been thinking about this for a couple days now... I've been with my boyfriend for 11 months now, he's a year younger ( and not as mature as he used to be). things between us haven't been so good...
Carolyneee
Xper 4 Age: 33 