Search Results: emotionally distant at times

Stay with him or not, what should I do?

Okay so im gonna make long story short we liked each other for about 6 months we hit it off really good in the beginning but he had a girlfriend then his girlfriend broke up with him bc she was cheating on him and he was...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Is he not serious about me?

Good things - we’ve been getting to know each other’s for 3+ months -hes opened up to me emotionally - he’s comfortable around me - he’s told me he wants me in his life - when talking about going back in time...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Boyfriend Not Over Ex-Fiance from Years Ago; What's Your Opinion?

I've been dating a guy for 13 months who I've grown attached to. We're both in our early 30s and he's been engaged before but the wedding was called off because he cheated on his fiance at the time. Their wedding was set...

MintyRaspberry

Xper 4 Age: 37

Break Up & Divorce

Lost her and it sucks?

I've lost my girlfriend of a long time :( she started becoming distant, cancelling dates and being uninterested in me. It sucks. I still love her even though she's started talking to a new guy. It hurts so bad and I can't...

Anonymous

(25-29)

What does he want?

So i dated this guy for 6 months then we were in the unknown status for another 6, i felt we connected well and very much in sync when we’re together but it stresses me out that everytime i felt he’s opening up to me...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Women do you want the man to make the majority of decisions in the relationship? Whether or not you do, do you believe its an instinctual desire?

Psychologically and the level of sexual dimorphism shows us that women desire a man who is physically fit which usually means he is able to provide and protect a woman. Women needed provided for and protected as well...

Anonymous

(36-45)

A Rebuttal to the Idea that Nobody Should Use the Term "Cheating"!

“The term “cheating” is erroneous and stupid and no one should use it.” This is the title of a MyTake by @Thatsamazing. I was originally writing this as a comment, but I got a bit carried away and figured it might work...

Cammy137

Guru Age: 32

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My boyfriend hurt me emotionally what do I do part 1?

So My boyfriend and I are both 20 and hsve been dating for 3 months. We got into an argument 2 days ago because we were on the phone (we go to different colleges), and I said to him, “I have to get ready for bed (it was...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Break Up & Divorce

What should I do about my ex?

Hi, me and my girlfriend of 4 years broke up about a year ago as I had to figure some things out in my own life. We have been in regular contact for the past 6 months with me trying to re establish a friendship to...

spqreid

Xper 4 Age: 41

Break Up & Divorce

Emotional Affair- Please help?

Hi All, Before you judge.. I have to admit I am in a loveless and sexless marriage - my husband is abusive and controlling. I could not leave him yet because of visa issues and he does not know I want to leave him....

Anonymous

(36-45)

How emotionally attracted are you to some one after a hardship or personal issues?

I was with my girlfriend through a hard cancer time and now that she is recovering she seems distant and sometimes I find myself unsure as to how to be with her. With you are you more attatched to your lover after a...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What does he mean by “I want to but I don’t know”?

My boyfriend and I have been dating for over a year. We broke up once because I felt like he was distant and cold and wasn’t emotionally opening up to me. He told me when we broke up that he had “lost” his drive to be...

Anonymous

(36-45)

My older brother has his girlfriend thinking our family is rolling in millions. Do I even bother correcting the stories?

We didn't grow up poor nor did we have a tragic childhood. We grew up comfortable in a stable home with loving parents and younger siblings. We both went to college. My brother was a sweet kid and I don't know when he...

Anonymous

(36-45)

If you are a man , what would you do if a hot girl did this? would it turn you off?

The guy takes the girl out for dinner and has a great time with her looking st the stars and going for a walk and getting to know each other , later down the road after a great emotional connection , we have sex like five...

brooklyn88

Xper 5 Age: 37

Is testing your partner, emotional/mental abuse?

Sometimes one partner will test another? Partner A feels that Partner B doesn't truly love them, so they'll test them by acting cold, distant, being difficult and see if Partner B will handle the stress and stay....

Uhhjsshshdh

Xper 7 Age: 31

Family & Friends

We used to be really good friends but now it seems like he avoids me? Why?

Me and this guy used to be really really good friends. Like, we'd talk all the time and it was never weird or awkward. We were just good support systems for each other. We were almost best friends. But then... He...

hi12341234

Xper 5 Age: 26

Other

Am I emotionally unavailable?

I am confused with my feelings towards my relationship ' My boyfriend used to not look like a boyfriend , he was very distant , needed a lot of space and didn't give me enough attention. I gave him space and time and...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

Is she trying to make me jealous?

There’s this girl I was seeing, she admitted to me and her friends that her relationship was abusive both mentally and emotionally. She told me one time she called him up to pick her up because she was drunk and when he...

Anonymous

(30-35)