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It's complicated and silly but it happens almost every time I go out and if I can understand it I can laugh it off,maybe alter my own behavior .Sometimes it ruins my day or my walk ,however mature I am or how I try to rationalize it or ignore it. It's so frustratingly bizarre.

Why do girls so this?

When walking with a guy, often holding his hand they either :

insult me/comment on my looks

or

stare me down, often stopping their boyfriend in his tracks in the middle of my path to make out with him?

Every so often, a girl will follow me around trying to strike up a conversation, usually if I am shopping in a market.Those times, I assume he's her brother and she's playing ' wing man'.

I get this from teen girls and women who are dressed like businesswomen in their 30/40s.

Some background,since these things effect social interactions:

I just moved to a small city where no one knows me.

am quiet and low key, I like to go for walks to relax after working on household chores or for a coffee in the evening. I 'live in' jeans and a tee shirt (both clean,no holes) , I wear no make up, my BMI is 18 so I'm not skinny or fat ,I am flat chested and far from a model or a slut. I wear my hair short bobbed. I have been told maybe 10 times in my Life that I am pretty and maybe as many that I am ugly.

When I walk, I am looking at the beautiful old architecture and lots of old trees and flowers,it's a lovely place to live- which is part of why this behavior from people confuses me. Sometimes, in a good mood, I am smiling at people,sometimes I look up to see a girl staring me down as she and her boyfriend approach or she moves him into my path and stands there with him.

The city is mixed classes,races,ages,nationalities- very diverse. It is also nice and homey, often described by the locals as a 'town' . It's also a 'city' , a big center for commerce and government with lots of tourists.

My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year and a half, and during that time, he has suspected me of cheating many, many times, without having just the smallest proof! Many times we've had huge fights about it and he ended up hitting me and trying to force me to "tell the truth". Well I said "I did tell you the truth" but nothing helps. He thinks I've slept with ALL his friends and many other... Without being able to say why, or have evidence. He says " I have a gut feeling and that's enough for me". I happen to be pregnant with his baby ( and of course, he is not sure if it is his either :( ) He went to visit a friend for a couple of weeks ago, and when he got home, we started hanging out and having a great time again, and I hoped the jealousy was gone. Yesterday he opened up his jacket and I saw he had a condom in his jacket ( that he didn't have the last time) and I asked why? He said " it's for my friend". Then he turned around the whole situation, asking my why I had a pack of almost used condoms in my bathroom. I told him " I live with my mum, so I can't really keep track of what she's been doing, and they're not mine " ( I do live with my mum, and those condoms ARE hers, but he will not believe me. ) I told him I haven't slept with other people so there would be no reason to use condoms! He yelled at me on the street and it was really embarrassing and I tried to calm him down a bit. He said " I've slept with three girls while I was away. Because if you're cheating, I'm allowed to, too". I was heartbroken and just sat at the street for 45 min before going home. I don't know what to believe. Should I believe what he said? Or maybe it was just because he was angry? I don't know, but I am very sad about him cheating if it's really true, because even after all that we've been through, I haven't cheated on him. So, what should I do? Believe that he could really cheat on his pregnant girlfriend, or that it was just something he said to make me sad? ( he showed me her phone nr even, just to "prove it" I guess) Late last night I got a text from him, like NOTHING had happened that day, he wrote" hey, there's good TV blablabla do you remember the name of that movie we saw today?" as if I've just forgotten about what he said. don't know what to do right now. Believe him, or? :(