How can you tell if your man thinks he has you wrapped around his little finger?

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Is there anyway you can tell?My boyfriend used to be clingy,but he isn't so much anymore.But now I'm wondering if he thinks he has me wrapped around his little finger,because,well I do spend time with my friends alone,but I always have time for him.Sometimes he'll reply to my text like 7 hours later and we had a talk because he is from a different country to me but is living where I live and I asked him what his plans where,if he wanted to go back to his country in the future and what would that mean for us?I just wanted to make sure we were going to be on the same page,but he took it as me being worried that he is going to leave me.Yes I don't want him to leave,but I was trying to let him know that I'm the needy and I'm not begging him to stay.But he was frustrated with me and went on saying,"don't worry,I'm not going to leave you". I just wanted to know what would happen with us if we both wanted different things,now I feel like I'm just going to worry about what will happen..What if he is just saying he's not going to leave me,but later down the track plans too?Because I saw a message once about a girl he was with a year ago and he was saying to her that they will be together again one day...

I don't know what to think and now I'm worried he thinks he has me wrapped around his little finger.How can I show him that he hasn't?
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That I'm not needy ***
How can you tell if your man thinks he has you wrapped around his little finger?
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