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Ooooohhh weeee!!! This topic loves to get hate and people shouting at you without giving a proper opinion. To make it more exciting. Im not going anonymous feel free to swear and curse at me and tell me I'm a bad person. And see if you find the irony of that.

Okay so my view on this topic is simple. I do not believe spanking (normal way, not sexual) your child is abuse. I was. My siblings were. My parents were. My friends were, and we are far from emotionally damaged people.

We care for our family and friends. We hate to see someone get hurt and we respect our elders.

Now I will admit to one thing. This form of punishment can definitely be abused. In that you can be too rough or too intense or do it for anything. Even small things. That's when it becomes physical abuse to me and that's horrible.

But whenever I did something very wrong. I got 1 smack. Maybe 2 and it hurt and I cried. But everytime without fail my parents. Dad or mom would tell me this hurts them more than me and they do it out of love. And I fully believed them. Thank God I wasn't sent to my room. I had so much stuff to do there. Wouldn't learn a thing.

A spank is a quick form of punishment which is easily to translate into being a punishment. It's sore and you don't want it to happen again. That's how I learnt what I shouldn't do. And no they didn't smack me and leave. They explained what I did wrong and I faced the consequences. Many techniques of discipline work for kids. This was mine and if you think you able to tell me if my parents loved me or not or if im damaged that's just laughable.

I reiterate. This form of discipline can be abused and done out of anger or hate. But that's something wrong with the parents mental state. Not the form of discipline. Anything in this world can be a taken too far.

I also find the abuse of children horrible and terrible. But if you can't see the difference in this. Then that's on you.

Let's say when you were 5 and your brother was eight, he went into your pants, grabbed your penls and said he'd kill you, cut off your thing and throw your dead body in the forest somewhere. Your parents fight, argue and are often gone and your brother wets the bed sometimes and cries. You were always dry and never had bladder problems. He wet the bed, blamed it on you and your mom spanked you, took away deserts for that day and gave it to your brother for being dry. When he was the one who had a accident. Your brother also used to show you p*orn pics and threatened to shove a apple up your butt, at some point he tried too and your mother sent him away for 3 weeks. He came back but he was still violent towards you. Your dad left and years later your brother tells you he's sorry, helped you pay for college and treats you with kindness and respect. Would you forgive and love your brother?

Dustin is nine years old. he's a really shy boy. at school and Kids tease him for being short but he's an A student. He likes to work with animals and play with legos. Dustin's Mother María is dating a 43 year old Man named nixon. Dustin doesn't like nixon very much. Nixon took Dustin in his room, locked the Door, made Dustin get naked, and spanked his butt until it was red and sore. Dustin bit his lip and beared the pain this went on for weeks. Dustin noticed Nixon gets hard after spanking him. Dustin felt sick and this made him cry. Nixon would slap Dustin's butt, get in the shower with Dustin to grab his Butt. Dustin was also beaten bloody and burned with a pan.
Later, Nixon put a bag over Dustin's head and raped him. Dustin vomited and screamed in agony but Nixon went in deeper. He also strangled Dustin. Years later Dustin cuts himself, tried to hang himself, when he was 18 he'd punch and hit a 6 year old girl, pulled her hair out, and pulled knives on People. AT 17, he pulled out his penls and jerked off in front of a 12 year old boy.

Is Dustin destroyed?