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My aunt and uncle don’t accept my cousin when he came out to them as gay. They shoot him down all the time and take away his phone when he texts a guy he likes because “they don’t condone that kind of behavior because being gay is a choice”... it breaks my heart. If you read this part do you also have any advice on how I can help my cousin? He’s starting to go down the wrong path because he’s so broken his parents don’t accept him. I’m curious what you guys think if your child came up to you and told you that they were LGBTQIAP

So I've always wondered this, and it's not mean to be inflammatory or offensive. But why do people insist that it makes one "gay" to be attracted to trans people?
Especially if they're "passing"? Or if they're post op, meaning a surgically created vagina for MTF trans women, or surgically created penis for FTM trans men?

I can kinda understand the argument of it being somewhat gay if they're pre op or non op (pre operation, no operation) and they still have original genitals, let's say if you're a man and performing oral on a trans woman who still has a penis doesn't seem fully straight to me.

HOWEVER, a lot of people still think a post op (already had top and bottom surgery - breasts added or removed according to their gender, and genitals surgically crafted into their gender of identity) who are passing is gay to be attracted to them. Why? At first glance, you can't tell for many that their biological sex, and even for pre op or non op, you can't see their genitals (unless they're naked, which most people aren't when you first meet them).
And I'm not saying people should force attraction or dating trans people. You still have the choice not to. I see that whole stigma in being attracted to trans people for fear of being gay (especially for men) and I've always wondered. I just think claiming someone is gay is a bit exaggerated at times. This isn't meant to harm or offend, I'm just genuinely curious.

TLDR: Is it gay to be attracted to trans people who are passing? Why or why not?

Do these trans women look like men? I doubt the average gay man would be attracted to them:

Do these trans men look like women? Again, I doubt the average lesbian would be attracted to them:

Bruno Mars is gay is the most discussed in the media in the few years ago. Even it has happened in 2012, but some of the public still curious about what is exactly happening and to be the reason there is a rumor comes out about his gay. At that time he became the massive social networking rumor. The public, especially his fans are shocked. He just came out with his bad rumor which is spread massively. This time is not about his music career, but his bad rumor. The rumor is out of standardize of hoax, according the last reported this singer revealed himself as homosexual. Do you still believe or not, this rumor is really much talked by people even in a person of his fans.

I’m just curious about other people’s makeup routines and if straight guys put on makeup too like foundation that’s why I put the gay option for guys if you’re a girl or a straight guy just pick one of the first 3 options