Search Results: he is scared from past relationships

My girlfriend often seems scared to be vulnerable around me. How do I confront her about this without making her feel attacked?

She was cheated on by her ex-boyfriend. Also, she experienced emotional/physical abuse in a previous relationship. She hasn’t told me any of this information this yet; I found out from her friend. At the beginning, she...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How would you feel dating a girl who had self harm scars from when she was younger?

I basically hurt myself pretty badly when I was only 14 and I now have about 20+ raised white scars on my arm. I've never done it since. I just went through a lot when I was younger and I was too young to deal with things...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What does he want from me? I have been talking to this guy since October of last year. That was my first red flag?

I know that its weird that I am writing a post about a guy I shouldn't be. We really started talking and developing a relationship during quarantine. We got really close, We texted throughout the day every day. We always...

Anonymous

(18-24)

How do I keep this man interested? Males perspective wanted?

I just typed a super long question and somehow it got deleted and I’m so sad so I’m gonna keep this a lot less detailed and more to the point but basically this whole past year I’ve lost a ton of weight and my self...

samatho

Xper 5 Age: 28

Am I being abused?

I am not sure if I am being abused. In the past my partner called me an evil b*tch because he said I was ignoring him (I wasn't I was confiding in a friend as I had an argument with him and he kept constantly calling me)....

Magosmall

Xper 2 Age: 32

Girl I genuinely care about is getting a little distant, I need help reassuring her because what i've been doing isn't working, any advice?

I'm not good at TL;DR's but TL;DR: Girl I've been talking to for over a month has recently been getting a little distant, but still giving me mixed signals that she likes me but she's genuinely scared because of her...

admelein

Xper 5 Age: 29

Should I believe him or is this a cop out?

I started talking to this guy early last month. We really hit it off and although it’s long distance we’ve been seeing each other every weekend. He wanted to meet my dad so I took him to have dinner together. He has let...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How to handle a girl that is not ready for a relationship?

There is this girl that I have been talking to for the last 6 months. She actually moved back to my area from across the country so that we can be closer and so she can get away from her ex. She was with him for 5 years...

JV219

Xper 3 Age: 36

What to do when the person you are hooking up with treats you like you are his girlfriend and you just can’t deal?

I have a guy I know through friends. We hook up, but I feel like he is treating me more and more like a girlfriend. I feel very bad lately, a lot of things from my past is creeping up (had a very very bad abusive...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Was still stalkerish behaviour?

Two years ago I met my first love, long story short a relationship was on the cards but we both did and said really stupid things that we couldn't come back from and have a healthy relationship with. Are...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Help me get over past? ?

Ok so I’m 36 he’s 43. We’ve been together for 2 years now but I can’t get over the fact that when we were 8 mths into the relationship he was talking to a girl (claims they never met up) non stop. I would go over and stay...

Anonymous

(36-45)

My ex boyfriend is developing his emotional maturity and we are both bonding better than before. Can this be a good sign that we can still come back?

During our new 'relationship', we underwent through an agreement that we will be a 'special companion' to each other rather than settling on a status as friends or couple. We both supported each other and keep reminding...

nicsrose

Xper 3 Age: 25

Preventing a breakup before its too late?

So me and this girl have been dating for nearly 2 months, its been perfect and then suddenly we have to go back to video chatting only bc her roomate is too scared of corona, i ask her to be my girlfriend she says she...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Had I done right?

My guy friend since 2 years, had a crush on me from past 1 year. He confessed to me. Though I knew he was serious, I rejected him as I did not want to spoil the friendship and was scared of commitment. Now that it is 2...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Family & Friends

How to deal with my bitch of a sister?

There is a 7 year gap between my younger sister and I. My mom raised me as a single mother, but my younger sister has always had both her parents in her life. My mom was just a teenager when she had me. Growing up for me...

Cherokeehp

Guru Age: 26

Family & Friends

Why is my mom so mean to me?

My mom seems so miserable in her marriage. Ever since I left home she’s made me feel punished for it. She said I would never lose my baby weight and I have now she makes out I am ill for being healthy. When they have...

MysteriousChick93

Xper 7 Age: 33

How can you tell if a guy actually cares.. ?

The guy I’ve been talking to for months now, Says he doesn’t want a relationship because he’s too broken.. Cuz of past relationships.. And I’m sure how I’ve acted in the past (accusing him of lying to me and stuff cuz I...

Anonymous

(30-35)