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Ive been dating my boyfriend for a couple of months and I love him his really sweet but his girl cousin moved to the same city and it seems like she's his girlfriend. we live 45 minutes away from each other he always came to see me three times a week. (I own a business and its hard for me to go see him) Now he only comes on Sunday and I love being with him. we text everyday and he tells me he loves me and that I'm all the happiness that he needs and that he misses me so much. things that bug me :

~ he called me to tell me his cousin had her period and what mediation I recommended. (do you girls inform your cousin when you have your period?)

~ had a speacial dinner planned out and he brought her along

~ he takes her shopping and buys her stuff this includes underwear etc..( she's 24 years and no job)

~he called me last night to say he was coming to see me and he never showed up his hanging out with his cousin

~ he promised me a new phone since mine had a accident because of him and then he ends up buying her a expensive phone instead of me.

should I be upset or I'm I being selfish it kills me that when were together she'll call him to find out when his coming home. They live right next door to each other they see each other everyday I don't understand way he can't come see me like he promised. I feel like a new toy came along and the old toys is put away. she's been here for three weeks and before he would never bring his roommate when he came to see me and now he brings his cousin. This pisses me off I'm not sure if she's doing this on purpose just to end our relationship but she's always asking for money from him and her dad . she's 24 and she doesn't have a job. my boyfriend works hard so he can go to college and help his mom and sister out . can someone help me out?

okay the first guy is nice, experienced in bed, is 17 and interested in me but has other options and told me so. he literally said "...by the way, you know I won't be single forever right? someone might beat asking me out before you, just saying." he said this knowing I've been going through a rough time and don't want to dive into a relationship. he's bright, mysterious and wants to just take the time to get to know me, till tonight when he said this, I'm not sure what he wants any more. I asked him if I actually meant something to him or just another option to date and he said I mean something to him but there are other people he thinks that are hot. he's been perfect up till this point and I was actually about to say I wanted to start a relationship with him but now I am wary because of what he has said. (ive known him for 2 years but haven't really started talking till about a month ago)

the next guy is sweet, innocent virgin (doesnt get most of my perverted jokes), a month older than me, never had a girlfriend, trustworthy and I've known him since middle school and would hang out in a group of 4 people and sometimes there were more that came by but mainly 4. I'm not sure if he is interested in me but I used to like him in middle school too and tonight after the way guy #1 acted, I was fed up and hung out with guy #2 because our group hasn't hung out in a long time. I started to like him again and was flirting a bit. we all had a nice timeand he accidently touched my b**b and wouldn't stop apologizing ALL night. while we were driving to his house to drop him off, I was leaning my head on his shoulder partly because I was tired and the day at the mall was exausting. then as the car stopped, I got out of the car to let him out and as we hugged goodbye I kissed the base of his neck discreetly so our friend's mom wouldn't notice even though he definately did. he didn't jump back or anything, just kind of froze for a second. then we hugged for a little longer then let go and waved goodbye. I didn't hug anyone else goodbye and neither did he.

who do you think is the best choice? and why?

My ex & I have been broken up a couple yrs. We have gone our own ways, dated others, but still kept in contact. He's had a new girlfriend for about 8 months...who he's had a friendship with for 8 yrs. He's told me he still has feelings/loves me. I don't do anything to interfere with his relationship,ive made it clear nothing will happen with us until he is single. Lately we seem to be getting closer. My love for him has never gone away, but my feelings for him are coming back. I don't know what to do. I don't think he is truly happy, or else why would he still call/text me almost daily. My question is from his actions do you think he will come back? and should I go for what I want, or let it come to me?