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I'm about to turn 20 and I'm still a virgin and never had a girlfriend for personal reasons, but I want just 5 more years to go IGMOW (I'M Going My Own Way) and better myself and become the strongest version of myself. Over that course of time I want to do things like become a successful entrepreneur, discover more of myself, strengthen my mental strength, become a more positive person, and take care of personal issues like my bipolar depression. I don't really mind going another 5 years solo, but I can't help but wonder how will this effect me when I do start dating. In case your wondering, no, I do not plan on sleeping around and getting sucked into the hookup-culture cesspool, I'm actually thinking about waiting until marriage to start having sex but I'm not sure yet. Also, I'm not a part of the MGTOW movement, I'm IGMOW.

I met this girl in the University. She is a bit shy person but I was attracted by her beauty the first time I met her around. She was eating her lunch alone and so I approached her to be friends. She was very kind and I did not expect it was the start of our closeness together.

Other than that, I find her hardworking person and smart and even has a nice voice to hear.
The only thing I maybe did not like about her is she is too shy but she is damn loyal and has a good heart.

I fell in love with her and started to ask her out to be my girlfriend. She was crying and even hugged and say yes. I took her out to real dates and even make her very happy every second I am with her. After six months of our relationship, I was asking to sleep with her but she said she is not yet ready and felt embarrassed. I asked her if she was still a virgin and she said “she is not anymore “ she had sex once to his secret boyfriend one year ago , he did not have chance to introduce him to her family because of strictness. And she thought that ex boyfriend she had was serious but he was only after her virginity.

i don’t know how I feel after that confession, I love her but she is not virgin anymore. Should I take this girl seriously or even considering her marrying? Or not.

(Please vote below and have your comments )

Did it ever ‘repulse’ you when you found out your partner has a sexual past?

My last girlfriend who was nineteen said that she has had sex once before. It was a big turn off for me, because it’s kinda ‘dirty.’

Because, it was nasty to think of other guys having sex with her. Also, her giving it up without forming a deep proper relationship with someone.

I am a virgin if you’re wondering.