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I've been going out with her for about 3 months and what pisses me off most is that she will only see me once per week. I'm 30 years old and I can't see the point in a part time relationship. I also find her to be quite secretive at times and I find this very frustrating. Like today for example, she had a seizure (she has epilepsy) and was taken to hospital in an ambulance. When I arrived her friend accidently blurted out something about her going to the police station and giving a statement for something. I asked what it was for and she avoiding answering by changing the subject. On Thursday we were supposed to go for a meal but she cancelled due to an 'incident' which happened at the college where she works. She didn't get home until 11:30pm and she won't say what happened. I asked whether the police statement was something to do with the college incident but she said no. I have tried voicing my opinions to her but I don't think that it's sinking in.

I know that this may sound trivial, but I just don't feel like we're heading in the same direction. Would it be wrong of me to break up with her because of these reasons? I don't think she is being unfaithful but I do think that she has commitment issues.

I appreciate any advice given, thank you.

My girlfriend is very secretive about what she does on her phone and computer. She is always acting like she is hiding something and has her phone on "do not disturb" all the time around me. It makes me think she doesn't want me to see other guys messaging or calling her. Anyways my friend told me I should set her up using baitmydate. com. Its a service that has good looking people that will contact her and flirt with her then send a screen shot of the conversation. My friend used the service so I know it works but I'm just afraid it might not be ethical to do. Do you agree all is fair in love in war or do you think I'm only asking for trouble etc? What percentage of girls do you think would fail the loyalty test on facebook if a hot looking stranger randomly messaged them?