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She has had a boyfriend for the last year and a half yet she constantly flirts with me and shows signs of interest. Back in March, when we were first becoming friends, she broke up with her boyfriend and then added my Snap and started talking a lot.

I joined her friend group and in the span of about a month or two we have become great friends. Until recently they were still dating but it was a rocky relationship.

We text / snapchat all the time and she always will send heart emojis or call me stupid nicknames and stuff. We are really close as friends and almost the exact same people in that we have all the same interests and sense of humor.
Whenever were together, she will sit next to me, touch me, play stupid games, take pictures, give compliments, etc.

We sat on the couch together and she was pressing her butt as close to me as possible and then the next night we watched a movie with a friend and she was lying up next to me all night

Were both at college now and having fun but also making sure to keep in touch as much as possible
We text and FaceTime a lot..

She texted me the other day out of nowhere to FaceTime and we talked for two and a half hours. She kept talking about how we are both so smart and witty and asked me how it could be possible that i dont have a girlfriend.

I mentioned something about pretending to tell girls i have a girlfriend and she said ahe would gladly be my “pretend” girlfriend.

Then we talked again today and she told me that she broke up with her boyfriend. When I asked her why she just said they were starting to lose touch. I asked her if it was cause there was anyone at college she liked better and she said she has made many friends but doesn't have feelings for anyone at her college. Later when I brought up a girl that asked me out she told me definitly not to date “some bitch I met only a few weeks ago”

She ended face time saing she loved me and I said it right back and I just can't always tell whats going on with her.

In China some parents are unofficially adopting and raising a female child. They do this so when their son is old enough, he will have a girlfriend/wife. Men outnumber women in China and there will be at least 30 million men that will never have a relationship or a wife. The Chinese parents that do this usually get a daughter the same age as their son, and their son and the girl grow up together in the same home. Then they become boyfriend+girlfriend and marry.

The entire world is becoming difficult for many guys to find a good girl. Why do you think violent crimes, mass shootings are increasing in occurrence? Why do you think men are dropping out of society and dating?

It's because when guys don't have a girl in their life, many times they decide to do the very minimum necessary to survive, and then just have fun alone with the rest of their time (movies, fitness, outdoors, travel, adult movies, or video games).

So if the leaders of the world decided to universally allow parents to do what Chinese parents are doing, would you do you what the Chinese parents are doing so you can ensure your son will have a girlfriend in his teen years and then marry her, and she will be a virgin for him so he will get that extra boost of pride that comes from being a girl's first? Why or why not?

Comment please.