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Okay so I'm in eighth grade right now and my best friend has a cousin who's in ninth grade. I met him at her pool party last summer but I didn't really think a whole lot about it. Then a couple of weeks after, my other friend said we'd be cute together. I ignored what she said and didn't really think of it. At my birthday party my best friend said I should ask out her cousin (as a dare) so I did but we made a deal that if he didn't answer by the time everyone left, I could tell him it was a dare. Anyways, a few weeks ago, I was at this track meet and my best friend again mentioned me dating her cousin. I didn't know he was there so I didn't think about it. Later, I got separated from two of my friends and when I found them again, they were hanging out with her cousin. We were all hanging out and one of my friends tried to push me into a guy, but instead pushed me into my best friend's cousin. During that night, I was talking to him and didn't really think a whole lot of it because I'm oblivious but when I got home, I kept thinking about him. I don't know if I should tell my best friend or not because I'm scared of how she'll react. Any ideas on what I should do?

Options I’ve created (you can also comment things you’ve come up with):

A: going to the country where my best friend lives for about 10 days and not having a party in my country.
Downside: it would be kind of boring since we wouldn’t have much to do and I don’t wanna waste too much money.

B: having my best friend come here (probably with her parents cause they’re very strict) and going to a hotel and doing some fun activities at the beach.
Downside: not sure if she can come cause obviously I don’t control that and also I’d have to pay a lot of money if I wanted to do that, a lot.

C: having a fun party and a photo shoot (basically all the normal birthday activities everyone is doing).
Downside: it would cost a lot if I wanted a good party (cause everyone criticizes you if you have a bad party) and I won’t be able to see my best friend after nearly 5 years of being apart.

I’m really torn between these ideas and I have to decide before it’s too late. Like I wanna do something fun and exciting, you know?

Thanks in advance for the help!

Because February right now is extremely hard for me right now.. brothers r In foster care, my brother birthday is Feb 13 then valentines then my birthday then my step dad birthday ( who I DC about )

I was going to have a valentines party with my boyfriend and his neighbors they r like family to us, webcam my best friend , talk to my extended family , and most of all send balloons up in the air for my brothers and just wish and pray they r ok