I am a Gemini and sometimes I am 2 people, and my evil twin likes to ghost. I don’t do it intentionally just sometimes I am sick of your shit. I try to be nice let you down gently, but sometimes you keep going and going like the energizer bunny.
While I don’t think ghosting is nice, (I tend to not let the evil twin out of her cage), there are some signs that the person will show, that will give you the all clear to run for the hills, and live your beautiful life as Slimer.
Don’t respect boundaries
When you are interested in someone and you see them as a potential partner, or even just a casual fuck, one of the qualities that starts it all is mutual respect. You make it clear from the beginning but for some ungodly reason they don’t get the idea and keep on placing themselves in your way. You have put your ground rules down, set your boundaries. If they don’t listen, well you can just tell them where to go.
They don’t take no for an answer.
This is pretty self explanatory. No matter how many times you say no, they don’t understand. It doesn’t compute. Its like their brains aren’t wired to understand the word no. In this case… Bye Felicia
This can mean emotional or mentally. They will make you feel bad for not hanging out with them. “If you really cared for me, and my cousins daughters best friends second birthday party you would accompany to her grandmothers funeral. “Uh no. That is the line – if you really cared for me…
Sorry kid, not gonna work this time.
Being direct won’t work
You can spell it out, or write it on a piece of paper, you can even sign it out for them. Better yet why don’t you splurge and buy a billboard so that they can see it on their way to your work. They will refuse to believe that you mean what you say. Maybe you were just in a bad mod at the time, or maybe for us just girls, we were PMSing. (oh HELLL NAWWW I mean what I say, take it and go.
They make you feel unsafe or uneasy.
For some reason, they give you the heebie jeebies. Its not something you can explain, its just something that seems off about them. I mean what if they’re the next Aileen Wurnos, or Jeffrey Dahmer. If that’s the case abort mission, and take off like Usain Bolt. Adios Muchahos. Its better to be safe than sorry. We don’t want to see you on the 6 o'clock news
Now don’t get me wrong they may not show all the signs, these are just a few. If you’re talking to or seeing someone that are exhibiting these signs, you know what to day.
Stay woke kids