Search Results: guys that are overly nice

Guy in question is a high-functioning aspie.

I know he is fidgety in nature (i. e twiddling fingers) but it becomes heightened when in my presence (i. e. he makes exaggerated movements and stops himself if someone comes around).

He would always offer to help me, very accommodating, tries to hang out with me alone (i. e. find chance to work together since we are project mates) . Are aspergers' often very nice by nature?

He initiated touch with me by resting his forearm on my thigh when reading stuff off my computer that was in front of me - he was seated next to me.

Often invade my personal space by leaning in and when i moved away a bit to see if he follows, he inched a bit closer as well.

I read that Aspies don't laugh a lot but he is so smiley around me (the little kid when he is showered with candy type of smile. He laughts at a lot of things I say even though they were just normal work stuff/not meant to be funny?

He finds excuses to call me too and seems overly concerned about my opinion of him? Has an eager to please streak? He would often apologise if he thinks he let me down in some way, though they are not the least bit serious?

So I met this guy at the beginning of school year. Im actually 17 and not over 18 lol. I started this account a while back and lied my age. Anyways, this guy is a friend a of close friend of mine. We all sit together on a table during the class we have together with my close friend and another friend. From day one, he was teasing me that I should smile more cuz I look depressed when I dont. I took it as a joke and didn't think much of it. But he kept telling me this almost everyday and trying to be funny about it. One day, I asked why he was always telling me to smile and he said "Im happy when you're smiling". I didn't say anything after that. Then he asked (we're texting) why I dont post more pictures of myself and I guess he thought I was insecure (not insecure, I just dont feel like posting a bunch of pics of myself), and said "youre so beautiful when you smile and I just wish you would see if yourself." I didn't respond to that either and he got the message that it made me uncomfortable and stopped texting me stuff like that. I also stopped responding when he asks me to smile so he stopped too. He would also mess with my stuff when Im not in class. Sometimes he would be a little too concerned about my wellbeing over stupid stuff like if I had a bandage over my finger or if Im sleepy/hungry. He once bought an entire box of pizza just for me when I specially told him not to. I noticed he isn't like this with my friends and he would always wait for me (nobody else) to leave class with before he goes and he follows me in the direction Im headed (sometime I switch how I get to class) until we have to separate. I don't know. If it had been anybody else, I wouldve thought they like me. But people who have known him for longer than me said he's overly caring sometimes and thats just his personality. I don't know if he's just being overly nice and if thats just him. He also dialed back down bc I think he noticed I dont like it when people are overly caring with me (Im not very sensitive)