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I never thought of myself as good looking, but a neat beard, new hair style, cool and laid back personality and good style and being 6'2 apparently does make me really good looking (According to every girl i know), so based on everyone i know, it seems iam very good looking, but that doesn't serve me well in the dating world, sure i've dated before, i get looks a lot, i have very attractive women eyeing me and smiling at me sometimes, and the compliments, they're there. especially when iam at college and among college aged girls.

but the girls i always attract are either : 1- unattractive, 2- really hot but taken, i haven't attracted a hot single lady in a long long time... not to mention women seem much less likely to talk to me than to my average looking friends ( again what people say not my own opinion) .

Hot girls though... they dont seem to have a problem getting a man, and no guys aren't intimidated enough to stay away from them it only exists in fantasies and on this site, there is no such thing as "she's single because men are afraid to talk to her" it doesn't exist there is always a guy who will, heck i will if i know she's single and i've tried before (but turned out to be taken ) .

So iam asking a simple question : who has dating easier attractive men or attractive women? (easier as in more likely to be approached and talked to and not just stared at from afar )

I've been at college for about 2 years, made plenty of friends and met many guys and girls and texted dozens of girls and went out with a few, before that i dated 2-3 girls at work and had a couple gfs, according to everyone iam a pretty attractive guy (wish i knew during highschool lol) ...

Anyways, i remeber the first girl i ever went out with and grew to like because she was pretty and had desirable qualities, I was really nice, cared about her and showed her that after going on 3 dates together, what i got in return was that she ignored me, hurt me and acted mean... i retailiated by acting like a typical badboy, becoming more attractive (facial hair, and new style ), ignoring her ( according to an article i read) and ohhh boy did she come back crawling to me, we remained friends though due to other issues.

Which brings me to the big question : should men actually listen to women if they ever wanna get a shot with the woman they want? women claim to want sensitive men but go for unemotional guys, they want nice guys but usually date guys with a hint of assholeness in them who aren't afraid to be asses to these same women, they want guys to be clear but choose guys who never actually admit to liking them... and before you say anything i did all of the above and it works, quite a lot if i may say.

So here's the question , answer it, guys any girls alike and lets hear your views.